athena53
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If I ran out of money (age 79+ now), I could live on my SS and I would become a "live in" with a family member or I would look for a girlfriend that had a house and needed someone to talk to every day.
My Grandpa's second wife found out after her first husband died that he'd elected a pension with no survivor benefit. Her adult kids told her she needed to remarry. When Mom took over his finances after she died and Grandpa was failing, she found that step-Grandma had been sending $300/month to one daughter and every time one of Grandpa's CDs came up for renewal it was renewed in her name. I saw my cousin last week and she said one of step-Grandma's children said that they were grateful that Grandpa "took her off their hands". Wow.
As for SS- I know several widows who were stunned to find that as widows they got only their husband's benefit as a Survivor- not their husband's plus Spousal. They couldn't afford to live in their houses anymore.
Lots of sad stories out there. I'm glad that becoming widowed at age 63 didn't compel me to become a gold-digger.