Recent content by crook32

Believe what you want but don’t think that what a stranger on the internet thinks is going to bother me. I am just trying to talk and work things out. Looking to see if there are things I hadn’t thought of.

I know asking her to work that much extra is not realistic which is part of the problem. I am the one with the health issues. I was out of work on short term disability six times in less than 3 years. My dr has talked about me going out on disability but I am reluctant to do it right now. I...

There was just so much to say I knew I would forget stuff. Thank you everyone for your insight. I forgot to mention that if she works 15 more years our finance guy says we would probably leave about $19M to our kids when we die. So I probably shouldn’t of said she has to get the full pension. It...

I am almost 41 and my partner is 47. We have $2,200,000 saved. Our finance guy says I can retire now if my partner works 15 more years so that she gets her full pension. However I feel guilty if I stop working and she has to for 15 more years. How do you find a balance? It is such a catch 22...