Koolau
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I get it. Both mom and dad lived through the depression. Mom "managed" (wore anklets to w*rk and changed into stockings when she arrived, for instance). Dad? Well dad rode in box cars and under passenger trains to look for w*rk. He lost part of a hand doing that! He also went hungry a lot as he sent all his money home to his widowed mom and his younger brothers and sisters.Excellent question.
My Mom was a worrier, and one of the things she worried about was running out of money. She reused tea bags and saved rubber bands from the newspaper even when she and my Dad had more than "enough".
You never get over that, I suppose and I'm sure I picked up some of it from dad and mom. (I couldn't feel comfortable if I didn't have a couple of months of food in the house). We're all products of our upbringing (no wright or wrong - just how we are).