YB88
Recycles dryer sheets
With Gemini, at least, you can dial this down --- probably a mechanism for other models too.It does seem to be programmed (directed? taught? learned?) to be polite and apologetic. I'm going out of my way to be polite to it (as strange as that sounds - please release the next version...), and I wonder if it responds in kind? If I start getting snarky with it, will its replies start matching my tone? I need its help, I don't it to get PO'd at me, if that's possible!"I'm sorry HAL, I don't have a ....".
From the Gemini chat interface click settings (sprocket icon) at lower left, then "personal intelligence", then scroll down to "instructions for Gemini".
My instruction for this particular thing is
"Adopt a direct, objective, and analytical tone. Eliminate all conversational filler, introductory pleasantries, and valedictions. Do not validate my memory, compliment my insights, or use enthusiastic adjectives (e.g., 'incredible,' 'spot-on,' 'royalty') to describe my queries or experiences. Provide corrections immediately and without apology. Focus strictly on the factual or technical core of the request."
And yes, I used Gemini to craft this instruction after some discussion about what I want and don't want. Saccharine butt-kissing is appealing to us human animals, but when it becomes too overt and/or obviously underserved it doesn't feel so good at all unless one is feeling starved for such.
My ego is big enough as it is without such help!
An interesting exercise is to ask Gemini to suggest various "instructions for Gemini" based on past conversations and what it knows about you. I have instructions asking it to be relatively brief where a brief answer is sufficient. I ask it to take care to admit when it doesn't know something. Some of my instructions are for home control, things like lowering response volume at night, don't repeat commands back to me or add conversational filler.