AJA's date recap #2 with some new info (aka, what's been going on.....)

All is good, we went to the party on the 18th together, and I am going to meet her family on Tuesday. :oops:

We still communicate each day. It's like being a teenager again, in some respects.
Glad you both took the risk on your local party. Good sign that you read her well enough to be comfortable asking, and that she's been able to emerge enough to do something different :). Meeting the family is a powerful sign of her healing and what she thinks of you, and confidence in her family's assessment of you as well.(y)(y):)

The comment about being a teen again struck a chord. I mentioned that idea to a lady I recently met and think it's a good approach to maximizing the fun while not making the drama and pain we've all experienced the dominant feature of our lives.

Thanks for the updates, keep doing what you're doing boss!
 
Glad you both took the risk on your local party. Good sign that you read her well enough to be comfortable asking, and that she's been able to emerge enough to do something different :). Meeting the family is a powerful sign of her healing and what she thinks of you, and confidence in her family's assessment of you as well.(y)(y):)

The comment about being a teen again struck a chord. I mentioned that idea to a lady I recently met and think it's a good approach to maximizing the fun while not making the drama and pain we've all experienced the dominant feature of our lives.

Thanks for the updates, keep doing what you're doing boss!
Yes, the family will all be there for Christmas and it should be about 20 people including grandkids. Kind of overwhelming. But I think they know a lot about me already since I have been seeing her for a while.
 
Yes, the family will all be there for Christmas and it should be about 20 people including grandkids. Kind of overwhelming. But I think they know a lot about me already since I have been seeing her for a while.
It may seem or feel overwhelming but remember, they love their Mom and want to see her happy, and you make her happy, so they already want to like you.
 
Wonderful update, so happy for you!
 
Seriously , this whole courtship story is in my top 3 of highlights from the ER board this year :):LOL::LOL:
Yeah, a year ago - who woulda guessed it? Probably not even aja!!

Great developing story.
 
All is good, we went to the party on the 18th together, and I am going to meet her family on Tuesday. :oops:

We still communicate each day. It's like being a teenager again, in some respects.
Hope all went well aja meeting her family which I would think it would. Keep the updates coming. I enjoy reading good things like this.
 
Hope all went well aja meeting her family which I would think it would. Keep the updates coming. I enjoy reading good things like this.
The day went well. We had a great time and a lot to talk about. One of her daughters lives in Massachusetts and her husband and I got a long great as he spent a good bit of time in Connecticut in the areas where I lived while in that state. I'm invited for Christmas dinner tomorrow too. :)
 
The day went well. We had a great time and a lot to talk about. One of her daughters lives in Massachusetts and her husband and I got a long great as he spent a good bit of time in Connecticut in the areas where I lived while in that state. I'm invited for Christmas dinner tomorrow too. :)
Things are moving quickly. Sounds great.

Keep us posted, aja. Have a Merry Christmas!
 
Great update. Companion happiness can be at any age.
 
Thanks for sharing Aja. These have been my favorite threads of the year.
I’ve been needing a hopeful story.
 
Thanks for sharing Aja. These have been my favorite threads of the year.
I’ve been needing a hopeful story.
Things have been going very well, and we have really connected (and both our children and their families seem to be OK with us as a couple). She checks all the boxes for me and I guess I do for her too. So we will see what the future brings for us older folks playing the dating/romance game! :)
 
Our own hallmark story right here on the forum!
So happy for you.
 
Things have been going very well, and we have really connected (and both our children and their families seem to be OK with us as a couple). She checks all the boxes for me and I guess I do for her too. So we will see what the future brings for us older folks playing the dating/romance game! :)
So happy for you!
 
All the best to you two kids! Keep us posted, please.
 
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