As a retired software analyst, I'm also kind of interested in AI - how it works, what it can do, and the social ramifications.
But I'm wary of anything (search engines, Google products., Meta products. etc.) that accumulates and stores my questions over time. And I realize I won't get the value of training my own personal AI agent if I don't do that. I've used duck.ai (tied to DuckDuckGo search) which in theory allows private, anonymized conversations with 3rd-party AI chat models like Claude and Chat GPT, and doesn't store dialogs over time.
I've also seen where the AI front ends are providing information that they scrape from websites that others have created. Apparently this isn't illegal use of intellectual property. My daughter at one point made a small income from her travel blogging, but she, and others like her, are getting out of the business of creating free resources that are no longer compensated.