This is not how it works.My point was that the only way to get his deferred filed-at-age 70 benefit at his death was to have qualified initially for SS under my own earnings, not his. Had I made less $ in my career, I would have had to file for spousal benefits instead of my own earned benefits, which would have then limited me to his FRA benefit at his death, not the larger benefit he's receiving by waiting to file until age 70.
Whether you claimed on your record or not and regardless of who passes first, the total of the benefits for the survivor is the larger benefit. When you are both alive, the two of you may receive the lower earner's benefit, a spousal benefit and the higher earner's benefit.
If the lower earner passes, their benefit & spousal benefit disappear and the higher earner's benefit continues.
If the higher earner passes, the spousal benefit stops, the lower earner's benefit continues and a survivor benefit kicks in. But the size of the survivor benefit is always calculated to be exactly what's needed to get the total benefit back to the larger earner's benefit.
[Edit: A good resource is to go to Opensocialsecurity.com, it will show you how the benefits work when a spouse passes]
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