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That is a beautiful screened porch. I would love that on the back of our home!
That is a beautiful screened porch. I would love that on the back of our home!
very happy for you, and a great btd event!will be visiting my birth mom, who we've only known for 5 years.
Jolly, it’s all about the experiences….and making memories, not THINGS! Excellent way to BTD. Have a great time with your family!July will be BTD month for the Jollystomper household. A large family reunion will be held where we are covering all of our kids and their families hotel, transportation, and most of the meals. Very much worth it for them to get together with my 6 siblings and their family branches. Then some of our children and our grandkids will be staying with us after that, and we have local events planned that we will mostly cover. Final total will come out somewhere in the neighborhood of $25K, but time spent with immediate and extended family like this is priceless.
Very nice!!Despite the fact that we will be moving to a CCRC in the next 3-5 years, we have made some investments in our home recently. I expect/hope they will add to the value when we sell it. But if not, the first will provide peace of mind and the second much pleasure.View attachment 51409View attachment 51410
I have the same issue with my disabled brother. We can do 5 or 6 days, leaving him with his "afternoon helper" who double duties it for us. But while we pay his help well, I worry about wearing out the welcome.Our BTD's are few and far between. DW will not let me buy any of the things on my list. Pole barn, mini ranch, Cadillac, etc. And we can't splurge too much on travel due to our eldercare situation with MIL.
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That "Respite Care" deal should work. I know some people who had their mother in something similar and it worked out well.I have the same issue with my disabled brother. We can do 5 or 6 days, leaving him with his "afternoon helper" who double duties it for us. But while we pay his help well, I worry about wearing out the welcome.
But now we're looking at two weeks in Tuscany next year with DWs side. I'm looking into "Respite Care" where he'd get a small apartment, three meals and a bit of supervision.
I've taken a number of classes there, it's top notch. And of course the bonus is all the great seafood between there and Portland. I could eat lobstah every day.taking the oldest of our kids to the Sig Sauer Academy in NH
Yeah, the trick will be convincing him!! He's incredibly stubborn and thinks he's in better shape and more independent than he is.That "Respite Care" deal should work. I know some people who had their mother in something similar and it worked out well.
Totally AWESOME!July will be BTD month for the Jollystomper household. A large family reunion will be held where we are covering all of our kids and their families hotel, transportation, and most of the meals. Very much worth it for them to get together with my 6 siblings and their family branches. Then some of our children and our grandkids will be staying with us after that, and we have local events planned that we will mostly cover. Final total will come out somewhere in the neighborhood of $25K, but time spent with immediate and extended family like this is priceless.
Good for you! I lust over the new vette's and have built several online using chevy's design your own program. I thought I wanted white (all my cars are white) but they don't offer a pearl option, so I've shifted to red. Finally got to sit in one recently and my wife wants no part of it "looks like sitting in a coffin." She's giving me a hard time, tells me I'll look ridiculous in the car, screams mid life crisis. "go buy another mercedes, more your style." /walks away kicking rocks/Put a deposit down on a 2024 Z06 Corvette. Should arrive mid September. Our NW will never be the same lol. But I justify it this way...
Dave, you're a man of similar mental gymnastics to me when it comes to buying something fun.Put a deposit down on a 2024 Z06 Corvette. Should arrive mid September. Our NW will never be the same lol. But I justify it this way...
Cost of Z06 - $146k
Sold my 2007 GT500 a couple years ago for $40k
Been w**king PT for 3 years making about $15k/year = $45k
Getting $10k/year from Dad's estate (MIL sends a check annually) for 4 years now after he passed...he told me before he passed to use it for something "fun" - $40k
Thus the car is really only taking about $20k from our "original" NW.