My urologist laid out the options, waiting, surveillance, RP, radiation, brachy and the various focal approaches. I have 50% cores with cancer (all left lobe), though all Grade 1 or 2, and a PSA of 4.76 (relatively low). He mostly left it up to me, and that seems to be what most (good) urologists prefer as its quality of life versus longevity - a decision the patient has to be in on.
I think quality of life is a higher priority than maximizing years for me, though DW is still trying to get her head around that. He’s ordered a bone scan to see if it’s spread (I can’t believe it has - there is absolutely no family history of PC) and an Oncotype DX GPS genomic classifier test (IMO that should be very helpful - I am a big believer in data based decisions). If those aren’t alarming, I get another PSA and meet with him again in 6 months. If it’s more serious than I think, I can always choose treatment. RP and radiation side effects are permanent so I don’t want to rush into either. The more I learn, the more at peace I am with the situation, come what may. Life goes on…
I kinda wish there was a PC thread, I am sure others here have been down this road.
And I’m sharing with immediate family, not quite sure if or how to share with close friends. There’s nothing they can do to help, so why bring them down, friends are for good times to me. And it’s still not entirely clear if this will be a minor or major turn in my life.