Calling all retired physicians (and those prepping to retire)

That's right on the mark unfortunately. Smoke a pack of day but want me to fix their shortness of breath. Have a BMI of 42 but want me to fix their back and knee pain. Eat fast foods 3 meals a day but want me to fix their high lipids. This is exactly the kinds of things that drove me out of practice.
 
The other thing that drove me wild was the “ my ( fill in relative) said I should get this ( medicine or treatment). This was before Dr google was so popular. And their relative was never any medical professional.
 
The other thing that drove me wild was the “ my ( fill in relative) said I should get this ( medicine or treatment). This was before Dr google was so popular. And their relative was never any medical professional.
Or "my friend has the exact same thing as me and they said I should be on..." Of course, their friend never actually had the same condition as them.
 
The other thing that drove me wild was the “ my ( fill in relative) said I should get this ( medicine or treatment). This was before Dr google was so popular. And their relative was never any medical professional.
I have a friend who has a very unusual pain presentation. He has had every treatment known, and then some. His wife keeps on pushing for the next treatment, I'm sure because she loves him and wants him out of pain. She has been haranguing his surgeon that he should perform the (risky) surgery because her husband is "special." It almost is like a Munchausen by Proxy variant.

I'm sure that a lot of docs he sees want nothing to do with him or his wife. Very sad situation.
 
It is really too bad it is sometimes the patient’s relative that is difficult when the patient is actually lovely. There is advocating for your loved one and there is interfering with their care and it is hard sometimes even for medical people to stay on the right side
 
I wonder what it's like to be a physician with the ability to "save lives" but be thinking about retirement. Does a physician worry about the patients s/he will no longer be able to care for? I'm thinking THAT would be the toughest thing about your decision to retire. Giving up the politics and the insurance cr@p and long hours, yeah, that would be just like my leaving Megacorp. But I'm betting that patients would tug at your heart strings and make you stay longer than you really wanted to.
Thank you for kind and insightful comments . I notice you are often spot on , so thank you. Yes, I did worry about my more challenging patients that it took me years to get dialed into a treatment regimen that worked or the tough obstinate yet delicate chronic smoking/drinking head and neck cancer patient. They bothered me the most about leaving. A couple of them wept or brought me gifts ...
But I tried to go out of my way to introduce them to my partners. In several cases doing intro's in the office to my partners who would now be helping them. I hoped it worked/helped.
 
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That's right on the mark unfortunately. Smoke a pack of day but want me to fix their shortness of breath. Have a BMI of 42 but want me to fix their back and knee pain. Eat fast foods 3 meals a day but want me to fix their high lipids. This is exactly the kinds of things that drove me out of practice.
:) My BMI was 20 when my tri-athlete PCP back in California asked me to lose weight to relieve my back pain and knee pain. My BMI was at 18.5 when I first started seeing him and my weight crept up through the years. But with my BMI at 20, he was asking me to lose 10 lbs. I am also quite tall for a woman...
 
:) My BMI was 20 when my tri-athlete PCP back in California asked me to lose weight to relieve my back pain and knee pain. My BMI was at 18.5 when I first started seeing him and my weight crept up through the years. But with my BMI at 20, he was asking me to lose 10 lbs. I am also quite tall for a woman...
Well that’s inappropriate certainly. That would have been a sign to find a new PCP.
 
A friend of mine was head of the ER/trauma center at a large hospital, did his internship at the busiest ER trauma center in the South Bronx and was pretty good at his job. He retired a few years ago and told a nice story about his last day at work prior to retiring on his Facebook page. I'm not an MD and I don't know the exact medical details but at the end of his last shift before retiring he was able diagnose and save a patient's life after the ER staff had failed to figure it out. He said it was a difficult diagnosis but he recalled a similar presentation decades prior and it turned out he was correct in seeing what was wrong. He said it was a perfect landing to a long and successful career and the look on the faces of the family waiting to hear their father's fate was priceless when he told them their father was going to be OK. He said he couldn't have scripted it any better.
 
Trust me. I can tell you from 33 years in practice that non-compliance is a huge problem. So many negative outcomes could be avoided if patients would just follow medical advice.
Hear, hear!

And patients should never surrender to "I can't afford my medicine." Doctors and Pharma companies will w*rk with patients to get them the meds they need in most cases (I'm certain there are exceptions).

My doctors always made certain to pass out the drug samples to needy patients, God bless 'em!
 
Hear, hear!

And patients should never surrender to "I can't afford my medicine." Doctors and Pharma companies will w*rk with patients to get them the meds they need in most cases (I'm certain there are exceptions).

My doctors always made certain to pass out the drug samples to needy patients, God bless 'em!
Also with somewhat few exceptions, most conditions can be adequately managed with inexpensive generics. About 90% of all prescriptions in the US are for generics.
 
I absolutely love my general practitioner and have been going to her for 30 years. Sadly, she’s going to retire at the age of 70, which I think is only a year away. She is the smartest and kindest doctor I’ve ever had.

If you bring in an article or ask her any questions with some information you have she almost always is knowledgeable on the subject. I find her really amazing.

I also really like that if she wants me to start a medication or have a test she thoroughly explains why, and also respects my opinion on the rare occasion that I disagree. It is truly a partnership with her.

Only once did I disagree with a prescription she wanted to prescribe when my cholesterol was high. She was fine with my decision and I was able to lower it with my diet.
 
I am way late to this thread. I will only post once. Thank you to every medical Professional. Thank you. You have all saved my life many times.

And to patients. Listen to your medical professional! They are on your side. Why else would they be there?
 
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