athena53
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Stop volunteering information that can result in a situation that drives you into a corner. Not all people share the same financial goal or restraint like you.
I have mixed feelings about this. I was married once to a spendthrift, divorced him and the second time married a man who shared my financial priorities. I have to admit I was less transparent with the Ex- he'd want to spend any spare money he knew about and max out his credit cards, too- but lack of transparency, IMO, is unhealthy in a marriage.
I wonder how many that responded in this thread will actually spend that 35k as they say if it is their money on the line and in the same situation. The risk factor doesn't exist when they are not the one doing the spending.
In 2015, one year after I retired, DH and I downsized. We bought a house on a lake with a screened-in back porch facing the lake. We immediately agreed we wanted to enclose it so we could use it for more months of the year. It cost $26,000. We bit the bullet and did it anyway. That was a very expensive year- also ended up needing to replace the 20-year old HVAC in the new house- but it was well worth it. We spent a lot of tie out there and our grandchildren love that space. DH died in 2016 but I'm out there almost every day in good weather and when the guy I'm dating comes over (he lives in a post-Grey Divorce apartment) he heads there immediately.
I should mention that my net worth has increased over 4%/year since retirement AFTER withdrawals so it was sustainable.
Not quite the same as landscaping since this has minimal continuing costs, but we did make a similar decision.