Yeah, I have considered that, and at some point we may just cash out the policies. But right now we are both worth more dead than alive
I'm not an expert on insurance, so maybe someone who knows more than I do could comment on all this:
I have a couple of policies (not whole life but one of the "universal" types) which I still fund and they both have cash value in them. But soon, I will need to decide whether to send them extra money to keep the policies in force. So far the cash value has grown and has picked up the difference between insurance cost and premium. That will not last. Insurance cost accelerates as one ages. Cost increases approach exponential since between my age and, say 99, virtually everyone will collect if they own a policy. (Heh, heh, if I'm being too subtle, that means everyone (virtually everyone) will die before 99.)
My thinking has been as follows:
1) Whole life and other types of cash value insurance policies have high costs when you first take them out as (my understanding) the sales person receives most of the excess payment the first, say, three years as payment for their sales efforts. So IF you keep your policy past 3 years, you've pretty much turned a corner on cash value. Dropping the policy after 3 years is not nearly as wise as NOT buying the policy in the first place. BUT once you have it for 3 years, the cash WILL begin to grow and IF your money is treated well (high guaranteed interest like mine - e.g., 5% in my case) it may make more sense to keep the policy in force than drop it. The "up" side of dropping any policy is that you no longer pay the premiums, of course. You can likely still buy term at that point but you'll not have that cash growing at whatever percent. DW put her cash value in her universal policy in the stock market option and the cash exploded over 30 years. She 1035'd the cash into a MYGA HIGHER than the face value of the policy! IOW her 95K policy grew to over $100K cash value after 30 years. NOW, of course, she has the cash in a MYGA but no insurance. (Pay your money and take your choice.)
2) In my situation, I have two life threatening health issues that I didn't have when my policy was taken out. SO, I'm a poor risk to the insurance company meaning (wait for it) my DW has a good chance of collecting on my policy before it gets too expensive to keep up. SO, I have, so far, decided to fund my policies. It's sort of like going to Vegas and playing roulette on a wheel that has no green zeros. Or even better, playing black jack against the house and they let you take all the ties! You gotta stay and you gotta play though YMMV.