I would guess the discount care version doesn't come with the tubes!The CCRC that I toured reluctantly showed me their last "phase" of health care. It looked like a scene from the movie "Coma" with a dozen or more folks crammed in a room with tubes sticking out of them - and no staff anywhere in sight . No, thanks. YMMV
What I noticed was that EVERYTHING else was 1st class! Client rooms, "health club", dining area, food, "'singles' bar" and staff.I would guess the discount care version doesn't come with the tubes!
Suspicious minds...My wife's uncle died 1 week after moving in. In reasonably good health, just died of a heart attack during the night.
My wife's uncle died 1 week after moving in. In reasonably good health, just died of a heart attack during the night.
I wouldn't usually be suspicious but I've seen where several CCRCs have "reorganized" or gone bankrupt. Inquiring minds...Suspicious minds...
Well, they didn't get much, he had the refundable option. My understanding the family got "most" of his deposit back.I wouldn't usually be suspicious but I've seen where several CCRCs have "reorganized" or gone bankrupt. Inquiring minds...![]()
I'm not sure "forfeiting all of their entrance fee" is exactly correct. The places I'm familiar with amortize your entrance fee by about 2% a month. So if you move out, you still get some of your fee back. Seems like a couple of years should be plenty of time to decide if it's really right for you, so at that point you would get half your fee refunded.can anyone share their rationale and calculations for selecting a 50% or 90% refundable entrance fee option versus forfeiting all of their entrance fee?
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What I noticed was that EVERYTHING else was 1st class!
Client rooms, "health club", dining area, food, "'singles' bar" and staff.
I don't know anything about that, but there are many that offer excellent care.From what I've read recently, CCRCs are eliminating/not offering skilled nursing beds.
You get to go outside the campus if you require skilled nursing care.
The issue is that many SNFs also do rehabs, and rehabs (short-term) typically bring much higher ratings than long term care. They are combined together in the ratings. SNFs are hell of a miserable place to be in. CNAs usually turn a death ear to residents ringing the bell for help. I witnessed a poor old man ringing the bell for an hour. A CNA would show up, turn off the alarm and say "I will be right back" without even asking what the poor guy wanted. I had seen it first hand many times in my prior career, which involved visiting patients in SNFs.I don't know anything about that, but there are many that offer excellent care.
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All the ones I've been interested in are rated either "Above average" or "Much above average".
The issue is that many SNFs also do rehabs, and rehabs (short-term) typically bring much higher ratings than long term care. They are combined together in the ratings. SNFs are hell of a miserable place to be in. CNAs usually turn a death ear to residents ringing the bell for help. I witnessed a poor old man ringing the bell for an hour. A CNA would show up, turn off the alarm and say "I will be right back" without even asking what the poor guy wanted. I had seen it first hand many times in my prior career, which involved visiting patients in SNFs.
Isn't that "final care" room up to you? My heath care directives are based on the movie, "They Shoot Horses Don't They?" That awful end-of-life scenario you saw is repeated in nursing homes and hospitals everywhere. I assume you can opt for hospice and stay in your own room in a CCRC, can't you? If not, they would be off the table for me.What I noticed was that EVERYTHING else was 1st class! Client rooms, "health club", dining area, food, "'singles' bar" and staff.
It is not so easy as that. My mom age 93 has Alzheimers, she was diagnosed with it 4 years ago and has been going downhill ever since. She lives in a CCRC and was able to stay in her independent living apartment with 6 hours of caregivers per day until 6 months ago when she started wandering away and falling. The CCRC said she had to have full time caregivers to be able to stay in her apartment (way too expensive with the caregivers costing $30 per hour). We investigated Hospice and they said she did not qualify because she had not been giving a diagnosis that she would die n 6 months (her doctor says she could live many more years) plus Hospice is not a 24 hour thing, they just come a few hours a day. We had to moved her to skilled nursing/memory care in her CCRC. She has a private room and it is very nice and clean with good staffing but it costs over $10,000 per month (her CCRC is a fee for service type). Mother has Long Term care Insurance (It took me about a year of constant work to get them to pay). The LTC insurance pays $6000 per month but it is only a 3 year policy and she has already used over half of the policy between caregivers and skilled nursing. She has some assets but they will be gone fast once the insurance runs out. Her CCRC does offer charity care once she runs out of money but she will have to move to a double room. Alzheimers is a major problem.Isn't that "final care" room up to you? My heath care directives are based on the movie, "They Shoot Horses Don't They?" That awful end-of-life scenario you saw is repeated in nursing homes and hospitals everywhere. I assume you can opt for hospice and stay in your own room in a CCRC, can't you? If not, they would be off the table for me.
I agree harllee. Dementia throws a wrench in everyone's end of life planning. But I hope once someone is terminal or vegetative, the same directives we use everywhere else would have the same effect in a CCRC unit - e.g., no tubes, DNR, etc. Outside of that, once you become mentally incompetent you lose most control over death with dignity wherever you are. Unless you take your own life before you become incompetent (in other words, before you would likely prefer) you are SOL.It is not so easy as that. My mom age 93 has Alzheimers, she was diagnosed with it 4 years ago and has been going downhill ever since. She lives in a CCRC and was able to stay in her independent living apartment with 6 hours of caregivers per day until 6 months ago when she started wandering away and falling. The CCRC said she had to have full time caregivers to be able to stay in her apartment (way too expensive with the caregivers costing $30 per hour). We investigated Hospice and they said she did not qualify because she had not been giving a diagnosis that she would die n 6 months (her doctor says she could live many more years) plus Hospice is not a 24 hour thing, they just come a few hours a day. We had to moved her to skilled nursing/memory care in her CCRC. She has a private room and it is very nice and clean with good staffing but it costs over $10,000 per month (her CCRC is a fee for service type). Mother has Long Term care Insurance (It took me about a year of constant work to get them to pay). The LTC insurance pays $6000 per month but it is only a 3 year policy and she has already used over half of the policy between caregivers and skilled nursing. She has some assets but they will be gone fast once the insurance runs out. Her CCRC does offer charity care once she runs out of money but she will have to move to a double room. Alzheimers is a major problem.
With refundable deposit options be sure you understand the math on the refund. In our CCRC, the refund is calculated on the original price--no allowance is made for inflation and does not reflect the price the unit will be resold. Also there will be "restoration" costs to return the unit to same condition as when purchased. These costs maybe sizeable. We chose the immediate savings off the entry fee and took the lower entry price which was amortized over five years--no refund after five years.
You will be long gone so it is really the heirs that will end up with a much lower real dollar return. In the meantime, I suspect if you stuck the difference in an total market fund and reinvested the dividends, your heir would have a much larger stash coming their way without the hassle of negotiating with the CCRC over restoration fees.
in our CCRC you give the them a copy of all your health directives when you move in and they are on your chart and as far as I can tell they follow your directives (don't know what would happen if a family member objected). As for my mom with Alzheimers, she has signed all the health directives too and here CCRC has a copy of everything. But as of now she can still feed herself, etc so the directives do not apply.I agree harllee. Dementia throws a wrench in everyone's end of life planning. But I hope once someone is terminal or vegetative, the same directives we use everywhere else would have the same effect in a CCRC unit - e.g., no tubes, DNR, etc. Outside of that, once you become mentally incompetent you lose most control over death with dignity wherever you are. Unless you take your own life before you become incompetent (in other words, before you would likely prefer) you are SOL.
Wouldn't you value the right to get a refund similar to valuing a lump sum annuity--You pay a certain amount extra now for the promise to get back a certain amount at the end of your life expectancy. I would think you could use one of the online annuity calculators. But watch out--CCRCs that have a large liability for future refunds are more likely to go bankrupt. A large well respected CCRC in Charlotte is in bankruptcy now because they do not have the money to pay back all the refunds. I like the fact that my CCRC has very little refund liability (the reason they have so few refunds is that the refund option is too expensive) .Thank you nwsteve. We already confirmed that we don’t have to wait for the unit to be resold to get the refund, but I need to asked about restoration costs. Have you done or thought about how to “do the math” on taking a refundable versus nonrefundable option?