I have tried messaging my doctor a few times over the last couple years, for things that seem minor to me. Unfortunately, every time I have asked a question by secure messaging, I'm told to make an appointment to discuss. What's the point of having messaging if I just have to make an appointment? That's one more thing to have to fit into my schedule, delays care for days or weeks, and can easily waste an hour or two of my day for what should be a simple request. It always stresses me out as I feel like I have to go to the appointment armed with "evidence" as to why I feel a request is necessary.
Recently I asked about reducing my BP medicine dosage as it was making me too dizzy, heart rate was getting too low, and my diastolic was getting too low. I had to make an in-person visit, repeating the same things I messaged about online. She didn't do an exam or run any tests, but approved the dose reduction. This could easily have been handled without the hassle and delay of an in-person visit.
A few days ago I asked to get blood tests to check my Vitamin D, B12, and Magnesium levels. Again, I got the response to make an appointment to determine if it was "medically necessary". It's my body, I just want to know, but I'm not making an in-personal appointment for that. So I'll just go without the tests.
I like my doctor, she's friendly and personable, but sometimes it feels like I'm visiting just so she can collect a visit fee. Other than asking questions during an appointment, I can't recall ever being examined in any way (other than the nurse taking vitals). She's in a small clinic, which unfortunately means we have to go to a different location to get any lab work or imaging done. That kind of defeats the convenience of her location.
In fairness, she may never even see my messages, as it's always one of the RN's that responds with the "make an appointment" response.
I've been thinking about switching doctors, but I don't know if the "make an appointment" response is just her, or if all doctors in the Vancouver Clinic organization would be the same. I got really spoiled by the previous doc I had at Kaiser. I messaged him all the time with questions, requests to change dosage, try new meds, etc. He always responded personally and was happy to handle things over messaging that didn't require an in-person office visit. It saved both of us time, and I didn't have to wait days or weeks to get an appointment. Unfortunately, I had to switch docs when our insurance changed after retiring.
Anyway, long story short, are you able to handle simple things with your doc via messaging, or are in-person visits the norm these days?
Family practice physician here. I'll warn you that my reply here may be harsh, but it is reality.
Patient messages are literally the largest source of stress in my busy life, and I would imagine 9 out of 10 PCPs would express similar frustrations with patient messages. It is universally hated. Why? Because it is nearly always a losing proposition for us.
What you think is a simple request is not a simple reply. A simple request to reduce a medication requires me to pull your chart up, go over your meds, and usually look at the last visit. Then, I need to know I have numbers I can trust. In other words, that your blood pressure and pulse were checked in my office with calibrated equipment, and I will always recheck myself. I also need to ask you questions to determine if the problem you believe is caused by your medication is actually caused by that, and not a myriad of other causes. This requires an in-person visit, both for the best care and for liability reasons. Imagine if your BP cuff is inaccurate, or you're using it incorrectly, and your BP is high, and that's why you're feeling dizzy. I reduce your medication, and then you have a stroke when your BP spikes. Bad outcome for you, and liability for me.
When you request labs 'just because' we then have to go in and order the tests and then tie them to a diagnosis. If we don't have a diagnosis (or symptom) to tie them to, we can't order them. If we tie them to an existing diagnosis and then the lab test isn't covered, we have papers to fill out, and often angry patients that have large bills.
By the way, these messages are answered in between patient visits, early in the morning before seeing my first patients, or staying late after work. We don't have scheduled patient message answering time.
I have a patient panel of about 2500 patients. These add up very quickly. Contrary to popular belief, we don't have all of our patients' medical histories memorized. Any questions that come up require us to go back in and familiarize ourselves with their charts.
This phrase here "I messaged him all the time with questions, requests to change dosage, try new meds, etc." makes me cringe. You are being selfish with your doctor's time.
Roughly 5% of my patient panel uses 90% of my mental energy. It's not the sick and complicated patients that cause me stress. It's the entitled patients who feel their time is more important than my time that cause me stress.
I try not to abuse the messaging service, maybe 3-4 times a year at most, usually far less. I just had an office visit 2-3 weeks ago, so I'm far from overdue for a checkup. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't think I'm asking for anything major over messaging.
"Could I get a referral to a cardiologist" - Make an appointment
"Could I try a lower dose of my BP med" - Make an appointment
"Could I get blood tests for vitamin D, B12, Magnesium" - Make an appointment
The only time I haven't got the "make an appointment" response is when I'm giving THEM some kind of information (a BP reading or something).
Sending 3 to 4 messages a year is a lot. If all of my patients did this, I'd have 7500 to 10,000 messages per year to deal with. Figuring 48 working weeks a year, five days a week, that's 50 messages per day. If each message took me 3 minutes (don't I wish it only took me 3 minutes per message), that's 2.5 hours per day just replying to messages. That's 12.5 hours per week.
And FWIW, I am very good about responding to patient messages on time, even if it is requesting to be seen for the problem. Those patients that abuse the messaging system get a 15 second triage at best. If they're not dying, I'm telling them to come in to be seen.