SecretlyFI
Recycles dryer sheets
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- Dec 8, 2012
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I agree with this self-advice. You are at an optimal point right now to adopt new habits and have them make a huge impact on your financial future. It seems you've had a habit up to now of taking on additional debt routinely, including borrowing more when you re-financed your primary home? So you went from putting only 10% down, borrowing $568k, to now, 5 years later owing $591k on it. Around your age I joined the no-debt camp, paying off 2 car loans and a mortgage and vowing never to have debt again. I did this after looking at my monthly expenses and crossing out just those 3 debt payments and was extremely excited to see how low my expenses would be if I just didn't have to write those 3 checks each month.Indeed, that is certainly a reoccurring tip/point here that is sinking in and I greatly appreciate everyone who is pointing it out. While we've managed our debt in a rational way, I'm at that stage in life where I think I really need to focus on avoiding all debt when possible.
In a debt-free situation, the amount of surplus each month starts compounding incredibly. The immediate benefit is the peace of mind of having a very large emergency fund, where you know you can handle anything that comes up (with 4 kids in your life, the surprises can be endless!) My main financial goal has always been to reach a point of having the freedom to choose whether to work or not. You want to be at a point in a decade or so to be able to make that choice, and you will not believe the amount of freedom of choice being debt-free and liquid-funds-rich, will provide to you. You already have the home of your dreams, so in my opinion, your goal should be work toward not being saddled to that paycheck.