As I mentioned on post #79, different people can have different goals for perpetuity.
Mine is for a piece of mind, first, then as inheritance to my kids second. There are few here who are playing the therapist role to make me more confident about a portfolio lasting my lifetime only, I appreciate their good gesture, but alas, I have rebuff them all.
The idea of perpetuity simply won't die, so I will give it one last attempt to explain why I want perpetuity.
First, why I don't want to retire now:
- At the current moment, the goal of perpetuity is hardly a struggle, assuming my portfolio performs within 50 percentile and my math isn't terribly wrong. Even if it performed at the bottom of the 75 percentile, I could still have perpetuity, although lifestyle won't be much better than what I have now. My lifestyle now with a family of four, I call it "thrifty," I fully recognized that 150k/yr all-in spending is not thrifty at all.
- I don't dislike my job and it's not stressful, so I don't have a dire need to retire ASAP. Yes, there are office politics and BS which I hate dealing with, but I've learned enough mechanism to slide under the radar of these office politics and BS. I also work from home full time, where I roll out of bed at 8:15 and get to work by 9, I sign off at 5; but more times than not, I sign off at 4:30ish. I have a home gym, so many times I will get my workout in during the middle of the day.
- My kids are still in school, my target retirement age is when both kids are out of college. While my kids are in school, it's not like I can just travel for 2 months in the middle of the school year. During the summer, my kids have a very packed summer, I still can't travel for more than few weeks at most. So what is the point of retiring now? To wake up every day with no goals, no structure, no accountability and no traveling to look forward to?
- I have unvested company stock with new stock awards every year; it is rolling vesting, unless I hit 55. So if I retire now, I will lose it all, which according to ChatGPT, it is more than the net worth of the 50 percentile of Americans. So that is a significant amount.
- If I retire now, not only will I not have perpetuity, I'm not sure if I can weather anything outrageous, like the US government calling on me to help out with the $38T national debt (you might laugh at this, but this happened to more than a handful of countries in the past century including gold confiscation in the US in 1933).
- If both my wife and I retire now, I need to buy health insurance for a family of 4; that is an outrageous amount of expense that I am not accustomed paying for.
- I tried MMM's minimalism and "luxury is a weakness" philosophy for a year; and it truly suck balls. I live only once, and I already grew up poor. . .so you can figure out what I want in my life and in my retirement years. . .luxury and a lot of discretionary spending, retiring now prevents that. Now I do recognize that one's spending habit is unlikely to change, so I may not even spend like a rockstar even if I have rockstar money.
Why I want perpetuity:
- For me, it's a damn cool goal and achievement. To be able to tell myself, my portfolio can last me until the end of time; heck, it might just add few more years to my life because of the good feeling it induces. My wife and I look at each other now giddy knowing we are on this path.
- The financial security it affords, is another amazing feeling, it's one level up. To know that for virtually any rough situation, you can just laugh at it while some others might get a bit nervous. One member here started the thread talking about backup plans like moving to somewhere cheap, downsizing and possibly go get a job in retirement, are you kidding me? Backup plans and retirement job is a red line for me.
- To be able to walk around knowing that I, in all practical means, I can never overspend, no matter how long I live, that is a priceless feeling.
- I want to leave my kids with a good chunk, maybe it can help them retire at age 48, 10 years earlier than I can retire. That would be an epic gift, and it will give the term "rest in peace" when I die a whole new meaning.