Early on, well before RMDs I either took from my 401(k)/tIRAs for living expenses and also did Roth conversions. That strategy was to protect me from huge RMDs later on. Approaching 80, I find that my 401(k) has "grown back" and is becoming a tax bomb that has only a couple of remedies. I can convert some to tIRAs and do QCDs with them or (ugh) I can pay the taxes!
Financial results have turned out much better than I expected so now, it's time to pay the piper (aka Tax Man).
By the way I DID manage to convert all my tIRAs to Roth, but that pesky 401(k) just keeps growing faster than I can deplete it. Shucky Dern!
A few things have changed my views on taxes. Because we’re at multiple times our financial independence (FI) number, the stakes feel very different. If we were only at 1× FI, I’d probably be fretting about every tax detail, but fortunately we have a meaningful financial flexibility buffer.
First, like you, the growth in my IRA has created a great problem to have: there’s more money than I ever expected, thanks to compounding and reasonably savvy investment decisions.
Second, I’ve come to realize that generational wealth is often short‑lived, so we won’t be passing down the entire pot to fund a lifestyle that could kill motivation. That may sound harsh to some, but I’ve watched too many friends and family end up with heirs who are unmotivated, or even just waiting for their parents to die. We’re shaping our charitable plans with that in mind.
Third, money doesn’t buy happiness. It really solves just one big issue: you don’t have to worry about paying the bills anymore. Beyond that, you still face health issues, family dynamics, and plain good or bad luck; money doesn’t fix those.
Lastly, my CPA—who is also a life‑long friend—sat me down and told me to stop saving. In his words, I’ve “won the game.” He’s proud of what we’ve built and thinks it’s time to enjoy the time I have left instead of trying to squeeze every last bit of tax savings out of our lives. He said I can afford to live a very nice life, leave a very nice legacy, and never worry about money again. When I brought up IRMAA, tax brackets, and RMDs, he literally laughed. His question was, “Does it really matter? You save a bit more and how does that change your life? Just to leave more money to your heirs? Does that truly matter?”