So an update on my month long snowbird test. We are now on the east coast side in Vero Beach, The Treasure Coast of Florida. Vero at least is a much smaller city, traffic is a fraction of that found in Naples, etc.. on the Gulf Coast. It's a touch cooler here and has a more manageable feeling to it.
I'm certainly more relaxed here, but I'm bored to tears. I hop in the pool, the hot tub, take a walk, go to the beach, go stroll the shops and dine out and I'm bored. I asked DW if she thought we should plan another winter trip down here and she said " Not for a VERY long time". I'm an avid woodworker and miss my workshop and I miss my local gym workouts. I guess I could have joined a local gym but didn't. Plus, aside from family we don't know anyone around here - so we miss our social connections.
So, how do you snowbirds stay busy, socially connected and active? Is the answer The Villages or a similar "active 55 plus community"? AIrbnb's aren't cutting it for me.
Interesting, and a familiar take. We are New Englanders also. I have never really liked Florida and I swear every time I go there I like it less. Our son lives in the Tampa area, and a couple of our very best friends, who we have known for 35+ years, snowbird in a townhouse in a Golf community in Naples. I tell them that we would come visit them if they lived in Zimbabwe. They are very active there, he is an avid golfer (I am not) they play a lot of Pickleball, weekly social events, etc. and I will agree that some of the best restaurants we have ever been to are there.
But it's still Florida and not our lifestyle. While we/they are very busy, it just feels like Groundhog Day to me. And then the crowds/traffic. Ugh. Like Flyfish1, I have hobbies at home, antique cars, woodshop, and I am always working on SOMETHING. I was bored to tears in FL after just a few days, in spite of doing "stuff", it just wasn't the kind of "stuff" that fuels me. I need to change the oil on something, cut down some trees, make a walkway, put up some shelves, take an old convertible for a drive on a nice day to a favorite local brewery, etc. etc. We live on a large very private lakefront lot in south central NH. Summers are WONDERFUL here. In fact, we are demoing our 125yr old house here and building a new this year, a bit closer to the water.
BUT, we have also come to hate New England winter. A LOT. 23/24 we did a 75day trip hauling a 21 ft RV to San Diego and back (we are actually living in that RV most days this year while the new house is being built). The adventure and fun of the cross country trip was great (we have RV'ed across the coutry a couple times in the past), but we found precious little warm weather. In fact, woke up on morning in Carlsbad CA and it was 16 degrees.
With 20+ mph winds.
And that same morning it was 40 degrees back home in NH!
DW enjoyed it more than me, but we may try it again. Sedona AZ and Temecula CA were favorite spots. Interestingly, DW and I looked at each other around the first of March and said "Yeah, I'm ready to be home now". We got home mid-March.
Then, April 3rd of last year, we got 18" of snow and lost power for 4 days.
Anyway, sorry for the ramble. But I was wondering if others who were "never FL" people but wanted to snowbird to warmer climes, have found good alternatives? We do not like high density living of any kind. We travel with our dog and always will have (at least one) dog. And we are fairly social people. Enjoy the outdoors, nature and travel adventures. We are both retired, 63/65 yrs old and pretty healthy.