My first PC was an Apple II+, upgraded it to a whopping 64k with a Microsoft 16k RAM card, also bought Microsoft's version of 'Adventure' (Colossal Cave) on 5-1/4" floppy disk --- after I actually had a floppy disk. Original storage was sequential access via cassette tape.
I too eagerly got each new issue of Byte magazine as they came out and typed in some programs including games.
I got into Blizzard games starting I think with the Warcraft series and in fact still play Diablo II Remastered with a friend once a week --- it's quite a replayable game and in a team setting is a fun and good way to stay connected. We've both purchased Starcraft Remastered and are getting back into that now.
Lots of intermediate games along the way, many of which have been mentioned. Empire [Deluxe] certainly included. Also a lot of games that I bought and ultimately didn't like all that much. A whole lot of Total War titles.
I get DIMS --- "Doom Induced Motion Sickness", so don't much like first person shooters, nor any sort of VR, that I've tried thus far anyway. And in my late 60's, my APM (actions per minute) isn't particularly high so real-time strategy games are a hit or miss. With Starcraft I can slow down the motion --- there's no easy-to-hard settings, but slowing down the action helps tremendously, I think, for aging gamers. With the Total War series you can opt to play the battles or let the AI work it out, and can stop the action anytime and control the speed when playing them so ... perfect.
I keep thinking that I would like to try some new games, but any game that will really keep my attention requires quite an investment in time/effort to get up to speed with, and it's disappointing to spend that time (and a little money) only to find the game isn't that good for me, regardless of how well rated it is by gamers coming from some other vector.
Maybe we need an "old gamers review new computer games" column somewhere to help sort that stuff out.