Hi there.
I have lived in the same home for 11 years. My house is a sweet 1940 cape cod which will be paid for in 4 years. (LBYM) I have 3 beautiful Oak trees that provide shade year round. I love my home.
The houses on my street can be considered "starter homes" so I have seen a lot of young couples move in, have a child or two, then move on. When we first moved in, one could accurately describe my block as "tree-lined". In the past 3 years, I've noticed that rather than trim and care for the trees in a yard, some of the neighbors are just cutting them down. I don't like it. It is changing the look and the feel of the area.
My neighbor (1/2 block) down the street has become a close friend over the years. (let's call her Sally)
Sally and I take walks for exercise on the weekends. On some of these walks, we both have given our opinions on what we think of certain home improvements that neighbors have done. Sally has lived on the street for 10 years.
A week ago, Sally had every tree cut down in her yard. Every single tree. These were beautiful 60 year old trees. Two large trees in the front, 2 ornamental trees in the front, and two large trees in the back. She said they "were in bad shape" and "needed too much work". She lives on a corner and her front and back yard now look like scorched earth. I hate it.
To make matters worse, she had an albino squirrel living in the tree in the front. This is a beautiful squirrel that my DH and I have been watching for years. We have not seen the squirrel since the tree removal. I am praying that he survived.
Every time I drive by her home I wince. It looks like a barren wasteland.
I know that this is her property and she can do whatever she wants with it. I know that. Really, I do.
However, emotionally, I feel angry that she has destroyed the corner lot of the neighborhood, maybe killed a unique piece of wild life, and also hurt my propery value.
Am I being completely ridiculous?
I have lived in the same home for 11 years. My house is a sweet 1940 cape cod which will be paid for in 4 years. (LBYM) I have 3 beautiful Oak trees that provide shade year round. I love my home.
The houses on my street can be considered "starter homes" so I have seen a lot of young couples move in, have a child or two, then move on. When we first moved in, one could accurately describe my block as "tree-lined". In the past 3 years, I've noticed that rather than trim and care for the trees in a yard, some of the neighbors are just cutting them down. I don't like it. It is changing the look and the feel of the area.
My neighbor (1/2 block) down the street has become a close friend over the years. (let's call her Sally)
Sally and I take walks for exercise on the weekends. On some of these walks, we both have given our opinions on what we think of certain home improvements that neighbors have done. Sally has lived on the street for 10 years.
A week ago, Sally had every tree cut down in her yard. Every single tree. These were beautiful 60 year old trees. Two large trees in the front, 2 ornamental trees in the front, and two large trees in the back. She said they "were in bad shape" and "needed too much work". She lives on a corner and her front and back yard now look like scorched earth. I hate it.
To make matters worse, she had an albino squirrel living in the tree in the front. This is a beautiful squirrel that my DH and I have been watching for years. We have not seen the squirrel since the tree removal. I am praying that he survived.
Every time I drive by her home I wince. It looks like a barren wasteland.
I know that this is her property and she can do whatever she wants with it. I know that. Really, I do.
However, emotionally, I feel angry that she has destroyed the corner lot of the neighborhood, maybe killed a unique piece of wild life, and also hurt my propery value.
Am I being completely ridiculous?