I took your advice and yesterday called and cancelled my relationship with Edward Jones. Also called my bank and made an appointment for next week. Also talked to a friend who is a money person (the exact capacity of which I don't know the name, but she used to deal with investments) and pretty much everything she said agrees with what you all here have said. We will meet this weekend to discuss options.
I'm ashamed to tell you all, since I've read so much about it here and should know better, how much money is in the four savings and checking accounts (his and mine, I need to combine them) but it's a lot. We kept meaning to move it to somewhere where it would make more money for us, but we didn't know how and it wasn't very important at the time...I know, silly us. But now that my husband has died (for those who haven't read my post about it, he was killed in a horrific accident two months ago, hit from behind while stopped at a stop sign), I want/need to do something about it, both for him and for me. It's what he wanted.
I did find out and confirm, thanks again to you all here, however, that because I put the accounts into a trust a couple of weeks ago at the suggestion of my lawyer, an unintended benefit is that all the beneficiaries are counted in the FDIC insurance coverage, thus negating my perceived need to get those CDs ASAP. The reason I was in such a hurry is because I'm so very far over the FDIC limit at my bank. I have four beneficiaries listed (my sister and my husband's three children) and with me, that makes five, and according to what I can read that makes me FDIC insured for up to $1,250,000. I can tell you that I heaved a huge sigh of relief when I found this out yesterday, and now I'm not in such a panic mode.
I still have to figure out what to do about the RMDs I'll have to take for him, but as so many kind people here have said, I can slow down, I have time.
Again thanks to you all, I also finally learned what a "brokerage" is (silly me, the name sort of says it all but I didn't understand - this is a while new world for me) and that Schwab, Vanguard, and Fidelity are highly regarded, and that Schwab has a local office relatively close by, and seems to have face to face appointments. I will call them today and make an appointment.
I just don't know how to thank you all here. I know it's an online forum, and that many of you have said that I have to take that into account, but the experienced advice I've gotten here ever since I started reading posts in about 2014 about retirement, through this time of crisis in my life, has been invaluable in my financial journey.
You are such caring - and just plain nice - people. And your patience is legendary to me - so many times you've patiently repeated the same thing over and over in different ways as you try to get across something that is simple to you but was/is just plain out of my mental reach at the time.
My husband was a legendary high school coach around here. One of his favorite sayings was "Treat yourself." He said it to the kids after they'd accomplished a hard workout or competition and should be proud of themselves. He meant to do something nice for yourself, maybe take time to take a long, hot bath, or read a good book (for fun, not school), or eat some ice cream, or take time out to play with your dog, or go for a walk with your family, etc.
You all here need to "Treat yourself." You've had a long hard workout trying to help me, both now and over the past decade (and hopefully for me, more years to come) and you truly deserve it. Of course, we can translate the treats to adult beverages or activities (smile!) I wish I could buy you all a beer in a local pub with good music and good company.
Thank you, so much...