@CindyBlue, I am very sorry for your loss. You've received a lot of good advice in this thread so far.
I took your advice and yesterday called and cancelled my relationship with Edward Jones. Also called my bank and made an appointment for next week. Also talked to a friend who is a money person (the exact capacity of which I don't know the name, but she used to deal with investments) and pretty much everything she said agrees with what you all here have said. We will meet this weekend to discuss options.
I'm ashamed to tell you all, since I've read so much about it here and should know better, how much money is in the four savings and checking accounts (his and mine, I need to combine them) but it's a lot. We kept meaning to move it to somewhere where it would make more money for us, but we didn't know how and it wasn't very important at the time...I know, silly us. But now that my husband has died (for those who haven't read my post about it, he was killed in a horrific accident two months ago, hit from behind while stopped at a stop sign), I want/need to do something about it, both for him and for me. It's what he wanted.
You don't need to be ashamed. Everyone starts from where they are. You're capable and will figure it out. Just take steps when you feel comfortable that you understand them like many here have been saying.
I did find out and confirm, thanks again to you all here, however, that because I put the accounts into a trust a couple of weeks ago at the suggestion of my lawyer, an unintended benefit is that all the beneficiaries are counted in the FDIC insurance coverage, thus negating my perceived need to get those CDs ASAP. The reason I was in such a hurry is because I'm so very far over the FDIC limit at my bank. I have four beneficiaries listed (my sister and my husband's three children) and with me, that makes five, and according to what I can read that makes me FDIC insured for up to $1,250,000. I can tell you that I heaved a huge sigh of relief when I found this out yesterday, and now I'm not in such a panic mode.
You might want to double check your FDIC coverage by using the following tool provided by the FDIC:
With an ad hoc test, it looks to me like the coverage is $250K per beneficiary, so you would be covered up to $1M if you have the four beneficiaries as you described. It does not look to me like you get an additional $250K for yourself, but I would recommend using the tool to be sure. It is a pretty easy tool to use I think.
I still have to figure out what to do about the RMDs I'll have to take for him, but as so many kind people here have said, I can slow down, I have time.
Under the most recent rules, you have until 12/31/2025 to take any of his year of death RMDs. You also have until 12/31/2025 to take any RMDs from any accounts you inherited from him. In other words, you have about 13 months to figure the RMD stuff out.
It might be more tax efficient for you to take any of his year of death RMDs this year, but if that's too much time pressure on you with the holidays etc., I wouldn't worry about it. It sounds like you have plenty of resources.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience - it helps so much to see how other people are handling it. Hourly sounds like the right thing for me. I pay $400 for my taxes to be done. and I'm betting a financial planner wwil be about that much per hour, right? We've tried to find one that will do an hourly fee for a few years now, but haven't been able to find one - don't know where to look or who to ask anymore. Maybe just look up CPAs in the book and call? Ask my tax lady? But I'll keep looking. Do you think someone at Schwab does tis kind of thing?
Although they both involve money, investment advice and tax advice are two very different areas.
Generally speaking, investment advisors are *terrible* at tax advice. I would never recommend getting tax advice from anyone at Schwab, Vanguard, Fidelity, or (especially) Edward Jones.
I would recommend finding someone who is a CPA and a partner or VP at a local, well regarded, long-standing CPA firm with multiple CPAs (like 10-20) and ask them if they'll do tax planning consultations with you on an hourly basis. Make a list of questions, schedule an appointment with them for an hour, ask your questions, note their answers, pay them, go home, and decide if you think they're good. If yes, accumulate more questions and then repeat the cycle. If not, try someone else.
The CPA I used a few times for similar tax planning advice was about $250 an hour but that was five years ago in a MCOL city. $400 an hour is probably in the ballpark now for someone who is good at what they do.
You *could* post your questions here, too. Either to doublecheck what the CPA says, or ahead of time to get some background, or instead of the CPA if you think our answers are good enough. This group is very smart and knowledgeable and helpful, but the one drawback is that it is hard to get a person's entire financial picture via a web forum (far easier in person) and fairly frequently the best advice depends on knowing the whole picture.