NgineEr - Thanks for the links to the calculator and blog post!
Aerides, Skipro - Thank you for the advice - it is very helpful!
Aerides - Your comment #2 is the risk mitigation perspective I did not understand until now - thank you!
I became risk-averse during the 2008-09 downturn. I didn't have much then, so I didn't have much to lose, but I saw so many others lose so much of their portfolios. I decided at that time that I preferred not losing my savings, rather than having the potential for much larger gains. I even bought $100K in gold, thinking the market would collapse...still beating myself up over that gold purchase!
However, now that the market has rebounded, it is really hitting home how much I gave up by investing so conservatively. Now that it is a decade later (and I have saved so much since getting my first higher-income job a decade ago), retirement seems so much closer, and I guess the combination of those factors have caused me to realize the need to change my thinking.
I truly wish I would have reached out for help years ago, but I was paralyzed by the fear of losing my savings if I invested in equities.
It is so helpful to hear about others' asset allocations being so aggressive, even though you are close to FIRE or already there. This is such great perspective for me. I guess I didn't realize how aggressively FIRE'ers invest, just from perusing these boards.
You only lose it if you sell