nototheman
Dryer sheet wannabe
- Joined
- Jun 2, 2023
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- 15
My name is Kevin.
I'm 28. I'm not retired yet, but I'm sure I will be sooner rather than later. My timeline is 4-5 years with aggressive saving. My NW is about 250k. I don't have a lot of expenses beyond occasional travel, and I'm not materialistic (anti-consumerism in many ways). I just play guitar, read, and watch movies all day.
I'm ahead in that I have a supportive family that paid for my affordable degree, got a decently high paying job in engineering in a LCOL area, and have at least some financial sense. So at least I maxed out my company matched 401k and my individual Roth IRA contribution. My biggest regret, common I'm sure, is letting my excess savings sit in a low yield savings account getting eaten away by inflation instead of putting it into the market sooner.
So my story is probably familiar to many of you-- when I grew up I had a "crazy uncle" who lived in Malaysia for many years and I'd see on holidays. He'd bring back cool souvenirs from his travels. I could tell my other family members treated him a little like an outcast--- he opted out of our traditional society, after all. But to me there was always a strange appeal.
It only took me a few years in the labor market to really "get" why he chose this lifestyle. I'm burned out and disillusioned as hell. I feel like giving it all up and living in a cave. But I know I need to stay disciplined and maximize my advantage of youth... It just weighs so heavily on me the cognitive dissonance of trading in my current health and sanity for the uncertainty of so-called "greener pastures". Sometimes I have existential crisises and feel like the universe is conspiring against me to keep me working and miserable until the day I finally decide to quit, at which point the world will promptly burst into flames and all my efforts will be "wasted". Apologies if that sounds a little dramatic
Anyways, nice to meet you all. Looking forward to learning from your experiences. Cheers
I'm 28. I'm not retired yet, but I'm sure I will be sooner rather than later. My timeline is 4-5 years with aggressive saving. My NW is about 250k. I don't have a lot of expenses beyond occasional travel, and I'm not materialistic (anti-consumerism in many ways). I just play guitar, read, and watch movies all day.
I'm ahead in that I have a supportive family that paid for my affordable degree, got a decently high paying job in engineering in a LCOL area, and have at least some financial sense. So at least I maxed out my company matched 401k and my individual Roth IRA contribution. My biggest regret, common I'm sure, is letting my excess savings sit in a low yield savings account getting eaten away by inflation instead of putting it into the market sooner.
So my story is probably familiar to many of you-- when I grew up I had a "crazy uncle" who lived in Malaysia for many years and I'd see on holidays. He'd bring back cool souvenirs from his travels. I could tell my other family members treated him a little like an outcast--- he opted out of our traditional society, after all. But to me there was always a strange appeal.
It only took me a few years in the labor market to really "get" why he chose this lifestyle. I'm burned out and disillusioned as hell. I feel like giving it all up and living in a cave. But I know I need to stay disciplined and maximize my advantage of youth... It just weighs so heavily on me the cognitive dissonance of trading in my current health and sanity for the uncertainty of so-called "greener pastures". Sometimes I have existential crisises and feel like the universe is conspiring against me to keep me working and miserable until the day I finally decide to quit, at which point the world will promptly burst into flames and all my efforts will be "wasted". Apologies if that sounds a little dramatic
Anyways, nice to meet you all. Looking forward to learning from your experiences. Cheers