Retired seven years and our net worth has more than tripled based upon holding (including selling for living expenses) exercised stock options. So don’t let future options hold you if you believe in your company and are holding company stock.
I've had that apprehension for years now. Still waiting. At the same time, I shortened bond durations in anticipation of...Recently, the market makes me feel the same. Instead of rejoicing, I have the apprehension that something like the following may happen.
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If I had $5M I would make sure I never hit $6M. Spend that money. You can't take it with you.Hoping I can post a $6M at some point!
Awesome - my goal was $5M at 50 - I hit it - and you did a little before that. Plan and then execute- '28 is coming up before you know it. As long as you've got college costs covered then you are good. I got a little surprise 2 years into retirement when my youngest daughter got accepted into the Harvard Business School for her MBA, thank goodness for surplus in the 529's. Point is be ready for stuff like that and ...wedding costs.Thanks everyone for all the kind words. To answer a couple of recurring questions, I'll be 49 in a few months and DW will be 54 this year and she pulled the 'shute right before Covid (so right around the age I am now). We have one DD in her freshman year of college. I get and fully agree with everyone's point about not knowing how much time we have left. DW and I have set that 2028 date as a hard one. The idea is to offer to remain on as a consultant (part time, of course) to make for a smooth and easy transition in return for some accelerated vesting. If that's not amenable, I'll just leave those shares on the table
He said "our NW excluding real estate crossed the $5M mark". So it's investible assets. And I'm quite impressed.Congrats! I don't know how old you are but don't put off retirement too long just to get more money. "More" is always out there. The key is to decide when you have ENOUGH. You did say this is $5M net worth, not investable assets, so that can make a big difference if a lot of it is tied up in real estate.
Yeah that's the wall of worry the market has climbed.I've had that apprehension for years now. Still waiting. At the same time, I shortened bond durations in anticipation of lower interest rates way too early as well.
However, I was born a month premature, so maybe that has something to do with it.![]()
Yes, I typed it backwards... in anticipation of higher rates... fixed the post. You probably remember that period of time.Yeah that's the wall of worry the market has climbed.
You shortened duration in anticipation of lower rates? Classically you want to do the opposite. Maybe that's what you meant.
VividlyYes, I typed it backwards... in anticipation of higher rates. You probably remember that period of time.
congrats, that's a great milestone!As of yesterday's close, our NW excluding real estate crossed the $5M mark. Figured I should post this now because it looks like we'll drop below after today.I have to pinch myself as I think back to where we started back in '09 with a couple hundred grand. Unfortunately, my FIRE date keeps getting pushed back. The long term incentives/stock at work are just too much to walk away from in good conscience. Currently aiming for April 2028.
Thanks to all on here who's wisdom has helped lead me down the straight and narrow for the last 10 or so years. Hoping I can post a $6M at some point!
Wow, super impressive. I'd have no problem finding the money for such an amazing opportunityAwesome - my goal was $5M at 50 - I hit it - and you did a little before that. Plan and then execute- '28 is coming up before you know it. As long as you've got college costs covered then you are good. I got a little surprise 2 years into retirement when my youngest daughter got accepted into the Harvard Business School for her MBA, thank goodness for surplus in the 529's. Point is be ready for stuff like that and ...wedding costs.
I totally misread that. I edited my post. Thanks.He said "our NW excluding real estate crossed the $5M mark". So it's investible assets. And I'm quite impressed.
Unfortunately I have the same feeling. Some things are just crazy, like AI grabbing up a massive amount of resources mostly on speculation, IMO. Like consumer electronics companies facing serious shortages of memory chips, not to mention power hog data centers being built all over the country. Something has got to give, and it won’t be pretty.Recently, the market makes me feel the same. Instead of rejoicing, I have the apprehension that something like the following may happen.
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If you're like us, and likely many others here, you'll find that once you gain that first million the dollars seem to multiply like rabbits. 20-yrs ago we crossed the 7-digit threshold and that number has steadily increased year after year.As of yesterday's close, our NW excluding real estate crossed the $5M mark. Figured I should post this now because it looks like we'll drop below after today.I have to pinch myself as I think back to where we started back in '09 with a couple hundred grand. Unfortunately, my FIRE date keeps getting pushed back. The long term incentives/stock at work are just too much to walk away from in good conscience. Currently aiming for April 2028.
Thanks to all on here who's wisdom has helped lead me down the straight and narrow for the last 10 or so years. Hoping I can post a $6M at some point!
Definitely! $5M will most likely grow faster than you will ever spend it, especially if you aren't retiring for another couple of years. By the time you hang it up, you'll probably have another million. At that point, unless your annual spending exceeds $250,000 or more, your portfolio will outpace your spending.You will and likely more. At $5m the portfolio takes on a life of its own.
Congrats!
Yes, like many have said here before. It doesn't matter when you leave but when you do you will always leave money on the table. Then you have to put a value on your time verse more money and stay working.Congratulations!
If 28 is your goal, start working on your mindset (and make peace with the fact that) you are going to have to leave some money on the table . . .
To the OP:
Every subsequent milestone is more easily achieved.
Also, MOST of us if anything think they should have retired earlier.
And on equity RSU's and other golden handcuffs, just know you can't retire early without leaving money on the table.
But every day, week, month or year that you work is one fewer day, week, month or year of freedom.
It's easy math really.