I voted self-insure, as that seemed the best fit among poll options for our case (aspects fo several apply).
LTC insurance is not a product I expect to ever buy on it's own, for shortcomings pointed out above and in other threads. Life insurance could provide one piece of our puzzle depending on how things play out. We also will likely look into buying into a progressive/continuing care commmunity at some point should that make sense, which I guess is a form of insurance. There's something of "winging it" in below as well.
For now:
1) An existing whole life policy offers a hedge against LTC costs for me only. Should I need care prior to death and DW survies me, we would pay for that care from assets and the policy would replenish the kitty for her for about 4 years LTC expense at current local rates (something less in an inflated future).
I have given some thought to doing something similar with permanent insurance for her, but have not done so yet, and may not, depending on costs.
What I like about life insurance covering part of this need as compared to LTC insurance, is that costs/benefits are much more predictable, and either spouse or estate will get a known benefit from the product and premiums paid, regardless of whether any time is spent in nursing home or utilizing covered in-home care. Sure it's a costly and partial solution, but LTC insurance is a less predictably costly and partial solution, too (given benefit limits). Life insurance does require out-of-pocket coverage first, however.
2) We have a non-cola'd pension - 100% to survivor - that represents about two-thirds of LTC cost at current local rates.
3) We expect that social security, between the two of us, will represent about one-third of current LTC cost for one. Social Security will reduce by about 1/3 for surviving spouse due to loss of spousal benefit.
4) Surviving spouse could live on pension and survivor SS if at home, or use it to cover substantial portion of any LTC costs he/she may incur in the end game.
5) Given the partial coverages above, we expect to have sufficient assets to cover remaining LTC costs, if they are needed.
6) Home equity is not included in above and could cover a few years for the last to go if needed, too.
So, depending on the order of events the reulting LTC funding mix could be:
1) Funded through assets and partially/completely reimbursed from life insurance for surviving spouse after death.
2) Funded through assets only, while other spouse lives on pension and SS.
3) Funded through pension, social security, and assets for second to go.
4) Handled through buy-in and benefits coordination with a progressive car facility.
5) If we end up with concurrent very long term stays, without other prior arrangements in place, we may become wards of the state (Medicaid).