Agreed. I might search for hotels on a 3rd party site like Booking.com, but then we try to contact the hotel directly. There have been occasions with smaller hotels in Europe and elsewhere where their preferred booking method is Booking.com. However, overwhelmingly hotels appreciate the direct contact and are happy to honor any price on Booking.com, etc. for a direct booking since it saves the hotel the cost of paying that middleman.
My trip-planning process takes time, but it helps me stay flexible while still locking in good options.
First pass: I map out where I want to be. For a typical 2–3 week trip in one country, that usually means booking 8–10 hotels. Since I’m not completely sure about my timing yet, I’ll often double or even triple book to keep strong options open. For example, if I’m unsure whether I need one or two nights starting June 2, I might book two separate one-night stays and one two-night stay.
Second pass: After more in-depth research, my itinerary starts to take shape. At this stage, I cancel most of the duplicate reservations but keep a couple of options in major cities where flexibility matters more.
Final pass: Once everything is clear, I lock in the final hotel choices.
I also revisit my bookings about once a month to see if I can rebook at a lower price.
Could I call each hotel instead? Sure—but that approach is much more time-consuming and hardly gets you better prices. It sure doesn't get you more flexibility. Since we don’t stay long in any one place and prefer to keep moving for a wider range of experiences, this system works better for us—especially since we usually travel by car.
Hotels are by far our biggest expense, where I find great bargain options.
Sometimes Booking.com sends me extra money for a hotel or a free taxi to the airport.
Big tech have been ruling the world. The small guys are eaten alive.
Although we have T-Mobile, calling outside the US costs money. If they use Whatsup, it's free.