Katsmeow
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While I haven't watched the show yet, I suspect that those chronicled would not have accepted a move as it would have been outside their comfort zone and the young child and pregnancy would have been an excuse to turn down the opportunity. And that is part of why they are where they are today.
The show is worth watching, I think.
All we can go by, of course, it was we saw in the show. I wish the show had asked if they had thought about moving.
However, I can hypothesize some possibilities. In both families, you had one person who had a relatively high paying union job who was laid off. They both found replacement jobs but at about 1/3 of the salary. At that time, they both had families.
The Stanleys already had 5 children, the oldest in high school. The Neumann's had 2 or 3 children when the lay off occurred and owned a house. In retrospect, the fact that they should have cut their losses and moved to a different area is evident. But - I'm not sure that someone from that area in the early 90s would have realized that. We know with the benefit of hindsight that those good union jobs with high pay, good benefits were never coming back. But they didn't know that then.
I also wonder how easy it is to pick up and move when you already are in debt, have a family, and have no money. If you stay where you have family and friends you can maybe get help. If you move across the country and don't know anyone then it may not be that easy if you don't already have savings to facilitate the move.
But isn't homes being underwater in most parts of the country a fairly recent phenomenon (since the great recession)? IIRC prior to that homes in most parts of the country were above water.
No. Back in the early 90s (when this show started) I had a severely underwater house, worth about 40% less than I had paid for it 7 years earlier....