Preparing for our first cruise EVER

My one and only cruise was in Europe. I kinda enjoyed it, but time in ports were too short. Time at sea too long and after awhile the boredom sets in if you aren’t into shows, gambling or over eating.
Try a smaller ship like Azamara. They have the longest time in ports. For instance, we have 3 days at Bordeaux. Perry Golf partners with them because they have the most time in ports. We also bought the golf package with Perry Golf and will be playing 5 rounds on the 11 nights cruise
 
My other quip or qualm about cruising is ...the tipping culture.

So coupled with the daily fee, call it a resort fee or a daily gratuity fee will cover , I guess some of the amenities and some of the staff's tips.

There was 1 staff for every 2 people on my cruise. Maybe I did not see them all, but you notice that there is 1 staff for every 2 people. That makes tipping interesting IMHO.

And some restaurants will let you add a tip to your room, and some require it actually.


This all just turned me off, along with the "Norwegenized" side of the trip...Norwegian shops, on the Norwegian islands with the Norwegian ship filled with things you can convert your USD to essentially the Norwegian capital.

That was all a little strange like they were trying to pull you in with that time-share-esque cringy feeling you get a little but not quite as bad as the full on time-share presentation we all love.
We prepay for gratuities and don't feel guilty about not adding additional tips. The only area perhaps for this aspect is getting alcohol drinks, which are minimal for us.
 
Try a smaller ship like Azamara. They have the longest time in ports. For instance, we have 3 days at Bordeaux. Perry Golf partners with them because they have the most time in ports. We also bought the golf package with Perry Golf and will be playing 5 rounds on the 11 nights cruise
That is nice, since you both play.
Pickleball has of course exploded and now there are 3.5 hours of Pickleball every day from 8am on our upcoming cruise.
However, our excursions cut into it, except the last 2 full days.
I can't convince the fiancee to go on a true Pickleball cruise, since she doesn't play anymore due to injury.
 
Try a smaller ship like Azamara. They have the longest time in ports. For instance, we have 3 days at Bordeaux. Perry Golf partners with them because they have the most time in ports. We also bought the golf package with Perry Golf and will be playing 5 rounds on the 11 nights cruise
It was a small ship, Windstar which allowed access to smaller Euro ports, but a half day in some places just wasn’t enough.
 
We prepay for gratuities and don't feel guilty about not adding additional tips. The only area perhaps for this aspect is getting alcohol drinks, which are minimal for us.
We prepaid for our gratuities, and feel the same way. The baggage handlers on embarkation day, the free room service breakfast (if we order it), and possibly (playing it by ear) the cabin steward are the only additional tips we are planning. According to the documents everything not part of the cruise package on the ship automatically has a gratuity added onto it, so I do not see a need to add onto that.
 
We prepaid for our gratuities, and feel the same way. The baggage handlers on embarkation day, the free room service breakfast (if we order it), and possibly (playing it by ear) the cabin steward are the only additional tips we are planning. According to the documents everything not part of the cruise package on the ship automatically has a gratuity added onto it, so I do not see a need to add onto that.
On previous trips, I have paid and not paid. They surely our grateful for the (additional) tip, but are not upset when they don't get it.
 
Our first cruise was an awesome experience!

We took a 3 day cruise back when US citizens could go as tourists to Havana. Spent two nights in port in Havana.

Friday night went to a small club to enjoy the music.

Went to the Copa Cabana on Saturday night! I tipped generously and the manager walked us right down to a table up front. A waiter showed up with a 5th of rum, an ice bucket and two cans of what looked like CocaColas. Sometime during the extravagant 3 hr stage show we drained the bottle of rum!

We have cruised 1/2 dozen times since, but nothing compares to our first cruise!
 
I went on my first and only cruise 2 years ago. So I'm obviously an expert!

I loved the ship and enjoyed the experience. The one glitch that I had to deal with was where to plug in the CPAP machine. While there was a small night stand and light next to the bed, there was no electrical outlet to plug in the CPAP. The few outlets were across the room at the desk.

I had checked out the room layout before we went and knew to expect to deal with this. I thought I'd have to run an extension cord across the floor every night and then put it away in the morning. Instead, I used 3 or 4 magnets and ran the cord up the wall, across the ceiling and down to the outlet at the desk. This worked great and and I was able to set it up once and leave it for the duration. The cabin steward saw it every day and never said anything about it.

Since then, many cruise lines no longer allow passengers to bring their own extension cords, you have to borrow them from the ship.

So, for anyone going on your first cruise, check out everything you can about the ship and especially your stateroom type. I had a lot of fun watching Youtube videos about the ship and tours of the staterooms.

HAVE A GREAT TIME!
 
We’ve been on all the Oasis Class ships and love them.
First thing after boarding is to do your muster.
Keep in mind when you first board, everywhere on the ship is packed because the rooms won’t be open until 1pm. Avoid the crowds during the week by eating off peak hours - breakfast before 8, lunch at 11:30. And take advantage of the other free places to eat besides the buffet. Dining room for breakfast is very relaxing. Central Park Cafe is nice for light breakfast and lunch. I’d try to make the main dining room for dinner each night. And no way to avoid crowds after the shows but it only takes 10 minutes and the crowds clear out.
 
I went on my first and only cruise 2 years ago. So I'm obviously an expert!

I loved the ship and enjoyed the experience. The one glitch that I had to deal with was where to plug in the CPAP machine. While there was a small night stand and light next to the bed, there was no electrical outlet to plug in the CPAP. The few outlets were across the room at the desk.

I had checked out the room layout before we went and knew to expect to deal with this. I thought I'd have to run an extension cord across the floor every night and then put it away in the morning. Instead, I used 3 or 4 magnets and ran the cord up the wall, across the ceiling and down to the outlet at the desk. This worked great and and I was able to set it up once and leave it for the duration. The cabin steward saw it every day and never said anything about it.

Since then, many cruise lines no longer allow passengers to bring their own extension cords, you have to borrow them from the ship.

So, for anyone going on your first cruise, check out everything you can about the ship and especially your stateroom type. I had a lot of fun watching Youtube videos about the ship and tours of the staterooms.

HAVE A GREAT TIME!
Calling the ship’s guest services line would have brought an electrician to your room to set up you CPAP connection.
 
Avoid the crowds during the week by eating off peak hours - breakfast before 8, lunch at 11:30.
Thanks. This fits to my vacation schedule, as I like to be up and out before 7. I normally do not eat both breakfast and lunch, so going early to either can work, as well as the alternative free places.

I would rather eat later, but DW prefers to eat dinner early. Our friends scheduled an early dinner (5:30) and included us as part of their group, so I am "stuck" with that :) . But that just means we will be dining at the same time with them in the main dining room, but not necessarily together.
 
OP--Enjoy your cruise and come back to let us know how it went!

We have cruised once 20 years ago to Alaska, it was a great trip. We did have a balcony as I wanted to see as much wild life as I could from our cabin. Which was good, as every time they announced an animal in sight, the railings around the ship were packed, and I am short, so....:)
We are considering a cruise to Hawaii in the next couple years.
 
Royal Caribbean is awesome - best balance of luxury, age, fun.

Even on the largest of ships I've found there's "middle decks" where you can sit alone on chairs in quiet and "have the boat to yourself".
 
Since retiring to FL we have been on several cruises. It had been decades before we jumped onboard of the Celebrity Line.

On seasickness, yes come prepared. DH wears a patch when the seas kick up. On one cruise out of Port Canaveral it was quite rough heading down to the Carribean during the fall. The dining room was half empty, DH stayed in the balcony room. I dined solo.

We book balcony’s as I enjoy time on it in the early morning or sharing a drink together before dinner to enjoy a sunset. Most of our cruises we book mid-ship, most recent stepped up to the back of the boat. Not worth the upcharge. No issue there with seasickness.

I try to avoid the pool area midday. There is a solarium with indoor pool which I can take advantage of early. They tend to get crowded also. So I usually find a spot on an upper outdoor area which has some solitude for a good read, enjoy the view, or nap. DH enjoys reading in the library area.

We do do occasional tours and have “toured” the island (Grand Cayman] on our own. If you’re doing your own thing, be prepared with transportation to from to ship, & mapping. I used to create offline maps. No longer. Only paid for cruise ship internet once when DD was with me. Now Verizon offers worldwide access to so many countries for a fraction of the cost. ( global pass ). Once you’re on island you can make use of it. While on the ship if I want to surf the web it’s only pre-downloaded stuff. We’re too busy enjoying shows, relaxing with a good book, great dining. We do some speciality dining for special occasions. I find when sailing with the same cruise line the food is repetitive. They specialty dining is definitely a step up. They offer promos all the time before cruising. If you choose to do so and know what dining room you want they promo them on board a few days into your sail.

Good luck. Happy cruising.

Oh we are in our early 70’s. Depending on what cruise line you travel each leans towards some demographic. If lots of kids are an issue stay away from Christmas week on a cruise. Did it once and done.
 
DW and I have finally done it. After years of talking about it, being put off by the pandemic, food poisoning events, illness spreads, fight videos, and boredom concerns, we have booked and paid for our first ever cruise vacation, now less than 60 days away. The recent news about cruise situations has not scared us off yet :).

We are taking a 7 day cruise on Royal Caribbean, on the Oasis of the Seas to the Bahamas. It may not be the “optimal” first cruise adventure one takes. However, early this year, friends of ours booked the cruise, and invited us to join them. Now, “them” encompasses a number (about 30) of their family members and other friends. Personally, I am a little wary to be traveling with that large a group of familiar people. But DW saw it as an asset, and she felt more comfortable having familiar faces around, so I gave in. These are good friends who have been very kind to us over the years, and not the type to "crowd" or insist that everyone do everything together. They are providing transportation to the cruise port (some hours away) for us, so we will save on port travel and parking expenses. I figure, on a ship that big, we likely will not be “forced” to running into them a lot.

Our preparation has mainly been watching various YouTube videos, which in general tend to be more upbeat about the experience. So I started this thread in this quiet, reserved community (HA! :)) to get any "real" tips, encouragements, warnings, or observations that you think might help us.

In no particular order, here are some observations and questions.
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For the room, we selected the basic interior stateroom (and not close to the group we are going with, which is good from my perspective). From the videos they seem fine for the time we intend to spend in them (we have been in hotel rooms about the same size and survived).

Our room is in the middle decks, about a third of the way from the from of the ship, so that hopefully will mean no motion issues for our sleep.

In terms of potential seasickness, we should be fine, I been on smaller fishing boats and sail boats in fairly rough seas without a problem. DW, however, can get carsick, so we will bring medicine, though on that large boat I am hoping anything that might set off her motion sickness will be minimal.

The wireless cost, oh my! But, I cannot see myself totally detached for 7 days, so we bit the bullet and went BTD route. At least we can switch the 2 wireless slots we paid for among the 4 devices as needed. And we will keep our phones in “airplane” mode.

We are not “foodies”, so the free options are plenty for us. In fact, maybe too much. Neither of us normally eat 3 complete meals a day, and many times I just have one main meal, so we will have to resist the temptation.

I do not have a good sense of how "crowded" things will feel. Certainly it will be busy around the pools, but I am still trying to figure out how things will work for the rest of the ship and other activities.

The drink packages are not for us. We are fine with the free options and may bring some specific items that they allow. After seeing videos of folks having their 6th or 7th drink of the day by dinner time, I wonder how many “buzzed” people will be around – or are the drinks very watered down?

The exercise room and walking track seem fine :cool: . I will likely be spending time every day here. It seems that few are up and about before 9AM, so I hope these places are fairly empty before 8AM.

We are not gamblers, and the arcade is more interesting to me than the casino. I just hope I do not look like an out of place old geezer there.

On port days, we are not planning any paid shore excursions, are find with getting exercise by walking around, and finding not-too-crowded beach spots to take a break in the Bahamas and Coco Cay. In the Bahamas the private beach options seem less crowded and safer, so we may spring for that.

On sea days I hope to do more than eat, hang out at the pool, and move from dining venue to dining venue eating on the hour (which is what I got from many of the YouTube videos :) ). I hope I can find quiet locations with a good ocean view, things to keep physically active, and people watch.

For packing, the things that stand out to us are:
(a) Bring a multi-port USB charger, the room will have limited outlets
(b) Any luggage brought better fit under the bed, to save room
(c) We will try to pack relatively light, and be prepared to BTD on laundry if necessary
(d) Magnetic stuff like hooks (I am looking at 80 lb or more rate ones) and containers will be helpful for hanging and holding things on the walls to save counter space.

I hope we have a variety of "date night" and/or dancing opportunities. :dance:
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So… any wisdom to impart on us (other than “RUN AWAY! RUN AWAY!”, that ship has sailed 😂 ) is welcome.
Couple things to consider. 1. Get a portable WiFi router/hotspot. Connect that to the ship then all your phones/computers to that one.

Run it with a VPN and that isolates you from others on the ship network.

Do not leave your cell phone on cell service unless you are connected to a shoreside cell carrier. “Cellular at Sea” will destroy a bank account for the unaware.

We tend to smaller ships. 2800 pax has been our largest. Our favorite from size and amenities is Viking Ocean Cruises.

If you like the big shows, shipboard shopping, casino and lots of restaurants you will be fine. If you find the experience isn’t what you want. Consider some of the smaller ships that are adult only like Viking for your next trip

I never had any interest in cruises. Got 7 behind us and 6 on the books. Been doing 2-3 a year between trips to Asia and Mid East.

Enjoy your trip.
 
We did a Newark to the Bahamas RC cruise in December. We had a great time even though the top two decks were snow covered and frozen for the first 2 days!

Highly recommend the entertainment. We did not see a bad show. Big stages and the small bars. Great pianist/singers in the piano bars and the big stages had a good variety of shows.

We all liked the buffet. Lots of options from countries around the world. The dining room was good, too, and we had two nice servers. We did the Italian restaurant for lunch as it was cheaper than dinner. I don't think I would do it again but it was nice to have something different for lunch. The pizza place was great if you like pizza and want a quick snack.

Coco Cay was good to walk around...we had lunch there. We didn't do an excursion and the lounge chairs were lined up on the beach - line after line after line. It didn't look like fun.

In Nassau, we did a city tour which turned out to be more of a shopping trip but we did go to the Queen's Staircase. It has an interesting history and was good to see. The fort was closed for renovations. We also went to a rum factory that was fun. A tour and then we bought an expensive but really good pina colada.

Our son recommended not doing big excursions because the ship is pretty empty when everyone else is gone. We liked doing something short and then coming back an enjoying the pool/hot tub/etc. We did not leave the ship in Port Canaveral.

I used to be prone to seasickness but the only time I felt sick on our cruise was before we left the port. I think the vibration of the engines did it to me. My husband took bonine every night and never felt sick. Even though it isn't supposed to cause drowsiness, it makes him tired. I am fine with taking it during the day.

On another cruise, I tried to walk the treadmill but it was facing the water and watching the waves made me feel sick so I only did that for a few minutes.

One son and I played 30-60 minutes of craps. He was learning and I was playing small bets. There were some big spenders so it was really fun to watch them play.

Enjoy! I hope you get hooked and take some more cruises. Alaska is amazing!
 
These are great to use the cabin walls to save closet space!
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Hello newbie cruisers Be aware of ALL food venues and hours. Choices are overwhelming.

See cruise critis.com, sign up, find YOUR cruise by ships name and date. You will find a few entries that may answer your question, hobbies, off shore trips organized by some one on the cruise. Be vary of taking a private tour on shore, you DO NOT KNOE WHO THaT PERSON IS.....BE IN A SMAL GROUP!
As soon as you find your cabin, go ROAM the ship, figure out where eating, entertainment is.....enjoy afternoon tea if it is available, check your bill on your room TV, EVERY NIGHT, see front desk if it is an unauthorized charge! Even if you have paid (almost (mandatory....) gratuities, tip cash to your cabin sterard and your dining room waiter IF you have some "extra" demands....
ASK MOR Qs.
 
Meclizine hydrochloride 25mg (Bonine but you can find the generic) works very well for me when needed. I find it very calming. Works for 24 hours. You do have to take it 30 mins before you expect bothersome seas.
Just wanted to confirm that Meclizine worked very well for me again. We had rough waters right out - the worst was the first night with corkscrew motion still the morning. Conditions improved after a few days but I kept taking it each day around dinner time and was glad I did because during 24 hours there was usually at least one rough patch. It still doesn’t make me feel sleepy, but I did usually sleep through the night.
 
DW and I have settled on the cabin option. We will stick with the inside stateroom. For us, the room is one of the least likely things to sway our opinion about cruises in general. If it turns out it impact our cruise, we will just try another cruise and choose a different room option, rather than swearing off cruising altogether.
 
DW and I have settled on the cabin option. We will stick with the inside stateroom. For us, the room is one of the least likely things to sway our opinion about cruises in general. If it turns out it impact our cruise, we will just try another cruise and choose a different room option, rather than swearing off cruising altogether.
Don’t be so sure. There’s nothing like waking up and going onto your balcony in the morning and watching the sun glint off the waves. Or watching as you arrive or depart the ports.
 
Good plan to see how the inside cabin works for you. Some people manage to find a few "special" places on board that they can go hang out in lieu of a balcony, and for them it would be a waste. I think balconies appeal to homebodies who like to hang out in their own space. I'm not always that way, but I do like having the option. And, of course, it's a lot easier to just open a door than to put on shoes and go walkabout to see if your favorite places are uncrowded enough to relax in one.
 
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