Koolau
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One of the first things I resolved to do was get out and do something social each week. Going out to lunch with others was one of those things.
We have found that much easier here on the mainland. Back in Paradise, many of the otherwise "social" things we used to do have been cancelled or relegated to Zoom. Actually Zoom has some advantages - including much greater participation, but it's still not the same.
On the mainland, we've attended churches, funerals, picnics, family gatherings, birthdays, couples eating out or home visiting, etc. etc. I hope upon our return, things will open up - again. Ige recently mandated BACK to 50% which, in reality, causes some places to go out of business or at least shut down. At best, menus and programs are dramatically curtailed. Not fun, but I sort of understand why it's happening. YMMV