Retirement - Three Weeks in and things are going well

Route246

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I'm three weeks into retirement at 68 and things are going pretty well so far. Between planning a renovation and an upcoming move, I’ve managed to keep pretty busy. On top of that, I’ve been diving back into coding some home projects that I’ve tinkered with for years—it actually feels a lot like being at work, except now I’m doing it for myself, and I get to enjoy the results at my own pace.

I did have a little scare with my health insurance. My application to switch from work coverage to Medicare Part B got lost in the mail a couple of months ago. Luckily, it finally went through and I’m enrolled retroactively to October 1. That was a relief, especially with the shutdown happening—I was worried I’d be without coverage for a bit, but it turns out Medicare and Social Security folks are still on the job. I even got my updated card in the mail, so I dodged having to pay almost $1,000 for a month of COBRA coverage.

I've kept up a weekly meet-up with two close former colleagues at a local place we used to frequent. That's pretty much my last regular tie to my old job. They did invite me back to campus for lunch, but I declined—returning as a visitor just feels too strange after closing that chapter. Both are people I mentored, and I told them I’m always happy to be a resource if they’ve got engineering questions—though I warned them my knowledge is already starting to fade (the half-life of technical info is about seven months in my experience!). We’ve got shared interests in cars, sports teams, watches, and F1. We're not close friends, but they’re the only ex-colleagues I expect to stay in touch with, mostly because I still care about their professional journeys.

I’m making a point to tackle all those little jobs around the house that always got put off during my working years. The big challenge now is the decluttering ahead of our planned move about 18 months from now. I’m finding it surprisingly satisfying to let go of things I’d have stubbornly kept in the past. I even built four sheds in the backyard at our new place and started moving boxes over. Once the remodel is done and we finally move in, I’ll have plenty of room—and hopefully a lot less clutter to unpack.
 
Good first report. Thanks for sharing.

Glad things are going well for you.
 
Pretty soon you'll be saying how you don't know how you worked a job with all the activities you are doing in retirement.
It’s funny and true. Now when I have a day with three scheduled events, it’s seems like a lot. I’ve looked back at my work calendar where I had almost every hour of every day filled, with more than enough other work to fill any ‘slack’ time.
 
Congratulations on retirement!

You’re like DH since he retired last year: One Project After Another
 
Congratulations on retirement!

You’re like DH since he retired last year: One Project After Another
One thing that caught me by surprise after retiring three weeks ago is how much time I now spend grinding out code—just like in the job I left behind. The only real difference is, now I’m doing it for myself and tackling projects at home that I never had the time or headspace for before. I guess software engineering really is in my blood, because I’d gladly work on this stuff for free. This has given me a new level of gratitude for having spent 45+ years in a field I’d honestly do for nothing if money weren’t a concern. Sure, there were office politics, corporate nonsense, and difficult co-workers along the way. But thinking back, I realize I never once dreaded sitting down at the keyboard to write code—not a single morning. I never really saw it that way until now, and I feel incredibly fortunate.
 
One thing that caught me by surprise after retiring three weeks ago is how much time I now spend grinding out code—just like in the job I left behind. The only real difference is, now I’m doing it for myself and tackling projects at home that I never had the time or headspace for before. I guess software engineering really is in my blood, because I’d gladly work on this stuff for free. This has given me a new level of gratitude for having spent 45+ years in a field I’d honestly do for nothing if money weren’t a concern. Sure, there were office politics, corporate nonsense, and difficult co-workers along the way. But thinking back, I realize I never once dreaded sitting down at the keyboard to write code—not a single morning. I never really saw it that way until now, and I feel incredibly fortunate.
After retiring, I was gung ho to continue some of my own software projects, and for awhile, I did. But, as time went on, I lost interest in favor of other things, and now it's been months since I've set foot in my home office and touched a line of code. I thought I would miss it, as it's been my life since forever, but I really don't.
 
Why are you still coding?
I did it for decades and then stopped cold. Find a hobby you enjoy and let go of the past.
There’s a whole world out there — explore nature, try new activities, meet people, and live more.

I was prepared years in advance.
 
Why are you still coding?
I did it for decades and then stopped cold. Find a hobby you enjoy and let go of the past.
There’s a whole world out there — explore nature, try new activities, meet people, and live more.

I was prepared years in advance.
Writing code is a hobby. Ham radio, fishing, poker (high stakes), working on cars, home improvement, cycling, maker projects are also hobbies. Coding keeps my brain highly stimulated as brain issues run in my family, it is almost paranoia that drives me to keep my brain stimulated at the highest intellectual level possible. My friend who is a retired engineer like me has become a Netflix induced couch potato and I can already notice his short term memory is degrading. He doesn’t seem to care. My self awareness of my vulnerability to this may not be the best approach but I’m not going to just give up and let my brain fade without a serious fight.
 
I discovered bridge about 13 years ago — it’s a fantastic way to socialize, challenge your mind, and have fun with others. Plus, it’s incredibly affordable, costing just $1–2 for three to four hours of entertainment. I also stay active by playing sports almost every day, which helps keep both my body and mind in shape.

My wife and I play bridge together as well, and we both really enjoy it.
 
Writing code is a hobby.
DH codes in support his other hobbies (like his music database) rather than coding for its own sake. AI has proven to be great tool when working with software written in less familiar languages to fix bugs, support new features or new devices. With AI he’s able to finish his hobby related programming tasks in less time, so he can move on to the next project on his list, like learning about his new EV features, or figuring out the optimal electric plan for home EV charging with solar panels but no battery system. Of course, like you, he has a lifetime of knowledge and experience to leverage AI, test the results and refine further as needed. No vibe coding here!
 
DH codes in support his other hobbies (like his music database) rather than coding for its own sake. AI has proven to be great tool when working with software written in less familiar languages to fix bugs, support new features or new devices. With AI he’s able to finish his hobby related programming tasks in less time, so he can move on to the next project on his list, like learning about his new EV features, or figuring out the optimal electric plan for home EV charging with solar panels but no battery system. Of course, like you, he has a lifetime of knowledge and experience to leverage AI, test the results and refine further as needed. No vibe coding here!
There are a few concepts in play with respect to my view of coding being a hobby. First concept is computational thinking. It is not just about coding but about basic problem solving. Coding is just a means to the end. It really is innate and not something you can develop. Either you think this way or you do not and I think it has to do with which side of the brain is dominant.

The second concept which is much more important is intellectual curiosity. One component of computational thinking coupled to intellectual curiosity is the hunger to be optimizing systems. Solar generation coupled to EV charging is a great combination of platforms to utilize the S/W APIs available.
 
Congratulations on your retirement !!

I remember that relief and the great feeling of doing anything I want with my time when I retired years back ! Enjoy !
 
Route246, glad to hear it’s going so well and you’re keeping busy. It sounds like your move will be around the same general area you live in now, which is good.
One suggestion on having lunch with your former colleague /friends, that I’ve adopted with a few friends. Take turns picking places (off campus) to meet for lunch. Preferably places you haven’t been to “try out new spots”.
One friend of mine in town I go out with weekly on Wednesday. We take turns driving and don’t tell each other where we are going. It’s become an enjoyable surprise to go to dives that we wouldn’t take our wives to.
Keep up the great retirement projects!
 
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