IBM and GE didn't "crash", they faded out over time and their investors drifted away more so than ran.This ^^^ snapshot view of the S&P500 makes things look more scary than it needs to be. Let's say in 10 years, Apple, Nvidia and Microsoft all got bankrupted (imaginary scenario here), the only thing the S&P500 investors care about is the performance of the S&P500 over that time period. If one assumes that the SP500 will crash to the bottom and can't recover (due to the above companies going to zeroes), that most likely will not be the case. One only needs to look back when IBM, GE etc. were the huge stocks within the index that "crashed" into much smaller companies, the SP500 didn't do badly over long period of times while absorbing all those stock crashes. One feature of an index such as the SP500 is the natural cycling-in of strong, high performed companies, AND the natural cycling-out of failed, weaken companies. I am too lazy to check, but I am sure at one point Apple (yes the great Apple) was kicked out of the S&P500 when its stock was value at ~$2/share.
As long as the SP500 will continue to do well, one does not need to worry which stocks are in there.
While today's MAG7 are really too big to crash, they seem to be a lot more volatile. Today's markets are more manic/depressive... I was at IBM in the 80's onward and it didn't really have the mania stampedes that AI and politics is driving right now.