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I have a small $5k inheritance from a relative's life insurance. DH and I are comfortable and do not need this money. We have no kids, but I have four nieces/nephews (ages 3-10) that I want to somehow benefit with this money at a future date. I received memorable financial gifts in my 20's from older relatives and appreciated the thoughtfulness as well as the financial lessons about investing long-term.
Each of my nieces/nephews already has a 529 plan that I contribute to, but I want more flexibility as to the timing and type of gift this will be. What I want to do with this $5k is to set up four taxable "Auntie Investment Accounts" that are in my name but TOD to each kid. I plan to seed the money equally among them ($1250 each) and invest in a simple ETF in each with dividend reinvestment turned on. Maybe add $100 each year at birthday or Christmas time. At some point, as each kid gets to the age where they start to "get it", I'd like to reveal that they (or rather, I) have this investment account and demonstrate how small amounts can grow over time via compounding. I want to be able to gift them the whole account in-kind sometime in their early to mid 20's (assuming that college/tradeschool is already covered) when they are ready to start their financial life. I am hoping to start a discussion on this thread to address a few points that require decisions. Has anyone else done this before or considered doing it? Here are a few notes/questions:
1. Taxes - I'm thinking any dividends will show up as taxable to me and DH for the years that we own the accounts. That's okay.
2. Tax Loss Harvesting - I want to invest in a broad index or ETF that's simple to understand but that won't interfere with my own TLH in our taxable accounts (we hold SPY and VOO in our taxable accts). There is a mutual fund SWPPX that is dollar-based so that I could invest all the money with no idle cash, but I worry that is too similar to SPY. To avoid any wash sales in taxable accounts, maybe hold something similar but substantially different for the kids, like QQQ or QQQM? Or maybe VTI or another SPY-type but not exactly SPY that I could put them in? Any ticker suggestions for something like this?
3. Cost Basis - if I gift them the account in-kind they will retain my basis, and will have to pay cap gain taxes when the shares are sold. I'm of two minds here - I don't want to give them a tax burden, but also I think maybe they need to "own" the tax basis to understand how capital gains works. Would you have been annoyed in your 20s at getting a gift like this with a tax burden?
4. Gifting - I am guessing that these accounts will probably not exceed the gift tax exclusion amount by the time I'm ready to gift them. If the market works out over time, at most they'll each have maybe a small-ish account of $10-20k or so. Current gift tax exemption is $18k and I'm sure will be larger in 15-20 years. I was planning to just set up the account in my name only so that they transfer TOD immediately if something were to happen to me. But if I'm still alive when I'm ready to give the account and the value exceeds the gift tax exemption, could I add my spouse to the account last-minute so that we both give the gift? Or is that cheating?
5. Spendthrifts/Fairness - in a perfect world, all four kids will be starting successful careers and open to learning about money when I give these gifts. But life isn't perfect. If one or more turns out to be a spendthrift or has an addiction problem or something, what would you advise? By keeping the accounts in my name until I'm ready to gift it, I get flexibility to change my mind and gift the money in a different way later (such as putting it towards rehab or something else more appropriately helpful). How would you address this potential scenario?
Please share any advice or thoughts you have about setting this up. I know several of you are gifting generously to relatives and nieces/nephews and would love to hear how you do it and if my approach makes sense or has unanticipated pitfalls.
Each of my nieces/nephews already has a 529 plan that I contribute to, but I want more flexibility as to the timing and type of gift this will be. What I want to do with this $5k is to set up four taxable "Auntie Investment Accounts" that are in my name but TOD to each kid. I plan to seed the money equally among them ($1250 each) and invest in a simple ETF in each with dividend reinvestment turned on. Maybe add $100 each year at birthday or Christmas time. At some point, as each kid gets to the age where they start to "get it", I'd like to reveal that they (or rather, I) have this investment account and demonstrate how small amounts can grow over time via compounding. I want to be able to gift them the whole account in-kind sometime in their early to mid 20's (assuming that college/tradeschool is already covered) when they are ready to start their financial life. I am hoping to start a discussion on this thread to address a few points that require decisions. Has anyone else done this before or considered doing it? Here are a few notes/questions:
1. Taxes - I'm thinking any dividends will show up as taxable to me and DH for the years that we own the accounts. That's okay.
2. Tax Loss Harvesting - I want to invest in a broad index or ETF that's simple to understand but that won't interfere with my own TLH in our taxable accounts (we hold SPY and VOO in our taxable accts). There is a mutual fund SWPPX that is dollar-based so that I could invest all the money with no idle cash, but I worry that is too similar to SPY. To avoid any wash sales in taxable accounts, maybe hold something similar but substantially different for the kids, like QQQ or QQQM? Or maybe VTI or another SPY-type but not exactly SPY that I could put them in? Any ticker suggestions for something like this?
3. Cost Basis - if I gift them the account in-kind they will retain my basis, and will have to pay cap gain taxes when the shares are sold. I'm of two minds here - I don't want to give them a tax burden, but also I think maybe they need to "own" the tax basis to understand how capital gains works. Would you have been annoyed in your 20s at getting a gift like this with a tax burden?
4. Gifting - I am guessing that these accounts will probably not exceed the gift tax exclusion amount by the time I'm ready to gift them. If the market works out over time, at most they'll each have maybe a small-ish account of $10-20k or so. Current gift tax exemption is $18k and I'm sure will be larger in 15-20 years. I was planning to just set up the account in my name only so that they transfer TOD immediately if something were to happen to me. But if I'm still alive when I'm ready to give the account and the value exceeds the gift tax exemption, could I add my spouse to the account last-minute so that we both give the gift? Or is that cheating?
5. Spendthrifts/Fairness - in a perfect world, all four kids will be starting successful careers and open to learning about money when I give these gifts. But life isn't perfect. If one or more turns out to be a spendthrift or has an addiction problem or something, what would you advise? By keeping the accounts in my name until I'm ready to gift it, I get flexibility to change my mind and gift the money in a different way later (such as putting it towards rehab or something else more appropriately helpful). How would you address this potential scenario?
Please share any advice or thoughts you have about setting this up. I know several of you are gifting generously to relatives and nieces/nephews and would love to hear how you do it and if my approach makes sense or has unanticipated pitfalls.