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HighOnLife

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Hello, I have been absent from this forum for many years, so thought I'd re-introduce myself. I'm a single male living in Kansas City. I just turned 44. My expenses are low. I have a mortgage that costs about 24K/year but other than that I don't spend money. I've done everything I want to do personally so don't feel the need to take fancy trips or acquire yet another fancy car. No kids. And KC is still a relatively low cost of living area.

My life over the last 11 years has been spent recovering financially from divorce. I'm now at a point where I consider that goal accomplished. I have a net worth of $2M, $1.6M of which is my investment portfolio, and $400K in my primary residence plus a few assets like sports cars and firearms. I include in my portfolio $880K in US equities and appx $726K of rental real estate equity.

In terms of stocks, I have simplified my portfolio to 85% US TSM and 15% SCV. Just this year I have added a few individual stock picks which are up, but which would not stress me out if they were down.

I carry 50K emergency savings in T-bills, but beyond that I treat the rental equity as fixed income. I manage these rentals myself. Last year, they yielded about $50K of net income. I added one more unit this year which has yet to be rented out. I've calculated that if I update each property and raise rents to present market values, I would take in $113K/year in gross rents, netting around $100K with careful management. This idea appeals to me, even though considering all the work I put into them I might be better to focus on my career and move rental equity into stocks.

I am self-employed, and skill-wise am at the top of my field. My income has averaged around 150K annually over the last fifteen years, often part-time hours, as lead designer/producer. I was primarily contracting for a creative agency in Chicago which self-sabatoged and finally closed down last year. I was the last to go. The demise was so crazy (and management so unprofessional) that I am considering just riding out my real estate portfolio and not looking back. For the first time, this is a real option. I suspect I'd do better to join a different team, and have a couple of leads. Creative Director positions are out there which start at $150K/yr. But for now I am coasting.

So it's a time of transition for me. I'm looking at everything from getting a low-cost MBA and starting my own agency, to staying semi-retired but doing artistic production on the side which would be personally fulfilling and yield only modest income. It has been an intense 11 years and for now the dust is settling.
 
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Welcome back. Good to hear that you have really recovered well from the divorce. Now you get to decide how you want the rest of your life to be.
 
So it's a time of transition for me. I'm looking at everything from getting a low-cost MBA and starting my own agency, to staying semi-retired but doing artistic production on the side which would be personally fulfilling and yield only modest income. It has been an intense 11 years and for now the dust is settling.
Several of us here are middle-aged, semi-retired with various "gigs" or consultancies, and unsure as to whether it's merited (or worthwhile) to fully retire - and when. The advantage that you have, is that you're established in your residence and your material-life, even if career prospects are fraught, and the net-worth maybe isn't approaching 8 figures just yet. It's hard to establish oneself, even if hypothetically swimming in rivers of shekels. So, even if in some sense you're "behind", impacted by divorce etc., you are also in some regards... ahead.

Is an MBA really necessary for your next foray in business? Perhaps the best thing now, is to coast for a while, recovering and regrouping.
 
Welcome, or welcome back. Sounds like you are doing great and can pick and choose what you want to do. Congratulations on the success!
 
Welcome back!

Curious if that's KC/KS or KC/MO?

I noticed quite a difference when I had to stay in KC/KS during a convention across the river in KC/MO. MUCH preferred MO but YMMV.

I assume the KS side is cheaper but the MO side has more to offer (IMHO).
 
Welcome back!

Curious if that's KC/KS or KC/MO?

I noticed quite a difference when I had to stay in KC/KS during a convention across the river in KC/MO. MUCH preferred MO but YMMV.

I assume the KS side is cheaper but the MO side has more to offer (IMHO).
Despite the name, Kansas City is on the Missouri side. Local residents refer to "KCK" (Kansas City, KS) as an afterthought. KCK is traditionally known to be impoverished, although there are areas such as Strawberry Hill which have resurged. Kansas side suburbs, however, are mostly affluent.
 
Nice to have options for sure. Fellow coaster here & started my small biz in 2019...definitely nice to make your own schedule & control your commute. Likely easier to manage tax rates without a SO.
 
Despite the name, Kansas City is on the Missouri side. Local residents refer to "KCK" (Kansas City, KS) as an afterthought. KCK is traditionally known to be impoverished, although there are areas such as Strawberry Hill which have resurged. Kansas side suburbs, however, are mostly affluent.
I used to live in Johnson County, Lenexa and Olathe. Used to ride my bike out into the hinterlands. The roads would just suddenly stop being paved and turned to gravel. Now people seek gravel out and one of the world’s largest gravel races is held down the road in Emporia.
 
Welcome back!

Curious if that's KC/KS or KC/MO?

I noticed quite a difference when I had to stay in KC/KS during a convention across the river in KC/MO. MUCH preferred MO but YMMV.

I assume the KS side is cheaper but the MO side has more to offer (IMHO).

Why? Were you bad?

I worked and lived in both cities. There's no comparison. Like OP said there's nice places outside of KCK. I thought the west side was really improving back when Carol M. was mayor of KCK. Not sure what things are like today.

OP welcome back.
 
Why? Were you bad?
Nope. Had a director who never just approved travel to national meetings - without making me wait. It cost me staying in KCK once and one time (all the cheap hotels were taken) and I ended up in a luxury hotel in Washington DC for the meeting. He was really PO'd when he saw the bill and I didn't spare his feelings. I told him, that, had he approved my travel 2 months earlier when I asked for it, I would have gotten the cheap hotel I asked for (showed him my housing application).
 
KCMO residents seem to think of KCK as more like an edge suburb. To add to the confusion, there's another separate town directly north called North Kansas City. I'm a DuPage County kid at heart.
 
Welcome back. You certainly have the luxury of time on your side with the way you are positioned. Congrats on living a balanced but LCOL.
 
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