Koolau
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With $10 million just setup an irrevocable trust, domiciled out-of-state.
Cost to both setup & administer would be significantly less than $450k.
IDK. The kids had a trust (set up by their grandparents) until they turned 21. The company that held the trust charged (wait for it) 4.5% to administer it - every year! In theory, it was "invested" to grow, but the 4.5% essentially ate up any growth - and more. Total rip off as far as I could see. I called them every 3 months and badgered them to change the rates they were charging. They always promised they would but they never did. I had no leverage over them. The grandparents left $150K total and I think (between the kids) they netted a total just under $150K after the last one got their share (total time - 12 years first to last kid.)
My impression of professionally managed trusts are that they are a great way to get rid of extra money you have to pass along. The management gets rich but no one else. As always, YMMV.