hesperus
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That's just it - you can't imagine how 'low' you have to be to consider it, unless you've been in that hole. Fortunately I never have. As someone else said in this thread: "suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem". Yes, of course but the issue is that that suicidal person doesn't see it as a temporary problem. They feel like it's ALWAYS going to feel this terrible. Normal reasoning goes right out the window. That's the hopelessness that severe depression can create. It doesn't matter if one is retired, working, rich, poor, single, or married. It's the great equalizer.
The stigma of it is also very challenging, so suicidal people (who are serious about it) rarely talk about it before they do it. And even here on this forum, I'm sure it makes people uncomfortable even reading about it. But having had close friends who have done this, the whole experience hits home again whenever I hear of it happening. I spent a few weeks time in a suicide survivors help group, because of the profound effect the loss had on me and my friends. I always take it seriously and never feel like I should avoid the topic.
The stigma of it is also very challenging, so suicidal people (who are serious about it) rarely talk about it before they do it. And even here on this forum, I'm sure it makes people uncomfortable even reading about it. But having had close friends who have done this, the whole experience hits home again whenever I hear of it happening. I spent a few weeks time in a suicide survivors help group, because of the profound effect the loss had on me and my friends. I always take it seriously and never feel like I should avoid the topic.
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