Worried in FL
Dryer sheet wannabe
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- May 21, 2006
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I have a friend who retired about 19 months ago only because she was sick of going to work everyday and because her husband had been retired for 5 years and did nothing at home while she worked and she said she did it all. When she retired she still had lots of debt and her husband when he retired had 80,000. in credit card debt. He paid his off with a withdrawal from his lump sum. Now that she is retired they don't have much money and I believe they are having a lot of trouble keeping their bills paid. He took Social Security at 62 about the time she retired. She is 56. They never saved a dime in their lives, didn't even own a savings account! They each got a couple hundred thousand dollars in a lump sum when they retired.
She tells me today that she has applied for SSD. She says even though she retired she still qualifies! She has had the disease "Fibromyalgia" for about 20 years and says she qualifies even though she is retired. Her company is paying for lawyers to assist her. The companies stake in this is that if she qualifies, they get rid of her in two years to the Medicare system and will only have to pay for her scripts.
She is about as disabled as I am! (NOT!) She walks 5 miles a day and shops incessantly. She sells products from her home for years and delivers them every two weeks. Yes, she has mentioned her fibro over the years but I haven't seen it disable her for more than maybe 4 months. She sees a Dr. no more than once a year unless she gets a cold or needs her meds refilled.
All of a sudden she found out she could do this to milk the system even though the disease is not the reason she retired. When I told her that I did not approve and it was milking the system, she said "I deserve it because I have hurt all my life." Good Lord!
No wonder Social Security is going broke if people like her are able to milk the system like this. What do you intellectuals think? Am I being too harsh on her? BTW, she is being led by friends who did the same thing!
She tells me today that she has applied for SSD. She says even though she retired she still qualifies! She has had the disease "Fibromyalgia" for about 20 years and says she qualifies even though she is retired. Her company is paying for lawyers to assist her. The companies stake in this is that if she qualifies, they get rid of her in two years to the Medicare system and will only have to pay for her scripts.
She is about as disabled as I am! (NOT!) She walks 5 miles a day and shops incessantly. She sells products from her home for years and delivers them every two weeks. Yes, she has mentioned her fibro over the years but I haven't seen it disable her for more than maybe 4 months. She sees a Dr. no more than once a year unless she gets a cold or needs her meds refilled.
All of a sudden she found out she could do this to milk the system even though the disease is not the reason she retired. When I told her that I did not approve and it was milking the system, she said "I deserve it because I have hurt all my life." Good Lord!
No wonder Social Security is going broke if people like her are able to milk the system like this. What do you intellectuals think? Am I being too harsh on her? BTW, she is being led by friends who did the same thing!