tipping while traveling?

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To not takeover the other thread. Do you guys tip hotel housekeeping or bellman? Or other cash tips for stuff? I find US there is a lot of tipping yes excessive but what can you do? I need more cash than ever.
 
Absolutely! Cash tips for housekeeping, bellman, curb side service at airport, HVAC tech, golf cart assistants at the golf clubs etc.
 
Oh no! Another tipping thread. Well, I know how this will go...
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Yeah, it's all personal opinion. In the US I'm a good tipper in restaurants, tip the bellman if I used them...

But overseas I rarely tip because it is usually not expected. But I do research what is customary. I'm pretty familiar with a couple of European countries and tipping is not expected but in tourist areas they have started to ask for it. But most locals I know do not approve of this so you can expect your server/bellman/etc. is culturally not aligned with expecting a tip but will gladly accept it.

My friend's son lived a year in the US and went to an American School for high school in Europe. He took a job in college at an American car rental company in his city in Europe. He was shocked at how many Americans tipped him for nothing in spite of his exposure to American culture.

My advice, do your research and use your gut. If it is customary where you are and you liked the service, give a tip. If it is not customary but you had an amazing experience, maybe still give a tip. Otherwise, don't feel obligated!
 
We waive hotel housekeeping whenever possible. One good thing to come out of COVID was having that option. If housekeeping is mandatory, I don’t generally tip.

I also do my very best to avoid bell services as I prefer to handle my own stuff but I do tip them when it’s necessary to use them.
 
In the US I generally leave a tip for housekeeping ($5-10/day) even though I request no housekeeping. Many now leave a card in the room with a QR code so no need to leave cash.

I don't tip housekeeping anywhere else in the world. It's not expected and they're paid a living wage.
 
I'm just relived that the expectation that everyone is walking around with cash in their pocket has diminished.
 
I tip housekeeping, even if I don't use housekeeping most days, and of course at restaurants, the same in Canada and the U.S. For other locations, I check with the local expectations in advance.

My son was a snowboard instructor last winter. He received tips varying from $0 to $50 for a 2-hour lesson. He absolutely loved the tips.
 
I always tip bellman, and hotel housekeeping. I check, ahead, if I need to tip cab drivers, etc for whatever country I might be visiting.
 
In the US - yes everyone gets a tip... :rolleyes:

Japan was great - no one got a tip. Loved it. Other countries I try to do a little research first.
 
I think housekeeping in particular is a hard job and I definitely tip them and everyone else that’s expected. One thing I noticed is that some of the hotels are no longer doing daily service unless you request it, which is fine with me.

Last year we spent five days at a very nice Las Vegas resort that did not do housekeeping unless you requested it. I still left money on the day I checked out for the housekeeper. Many people in those positions are really reliant on those tips to make a decent wage.
 
We waive hotel housekeeping whenever possible. One good thing to come out of COVID was having that option. If housekeeping is mandatory, I don’t generally tip.

I also do my very best to avoid bell services as I prefer to handle my own stuff but I do tip them when it’s necessary to use them.
It seems more often now for my experiences, I dont need to waive anything, they just dont show up to the room unless we are there more than 3 days. I find more often I have to hunt housekeeping down for towels if we are low. But that is fine. Maybe I am just odd, but I really dont want anyone in my room, handling my luggage or touching my golf clubs, etc. Im able bodied and can and prefer to do, self service.
 
Traveling in the US?--of course we tip the people you mention. In other countries, we do some advance research as to the relevant culture there and try not to listen to other Americans telling us what they do. Every country is different. In some countries, there is simply no such thing as tipping--or if there is, it's an American custom creeping in thanks to overzealous American travelers. We just returned from Norway and were surprised to see the credit card terminals ask us if we wanted to add a tip, because we had heard from Norwegians that there is no traditional custom of tipping. We did not tip there. In some countries, tips in some amount--typically way smaller than the US--are appreciated but not expected. I recall in Egypt the baksheesh custom of greasing the wheels with small bits here and there to just about everyone you deal with was the norm. You just need to do your homework and don't succumb to the temptation to tip abroad as you would in the US.
 
Same as a fair wage.
Yep. Part of the reason I tip based on the number of nights is that housekeeping in the U.S. only gets paid if they clean a room. As others here mentioned, I'd rather not have housekeeping in my room, so the tip is given in part to make up for the fact that they're not getting paid to service the room. In other countries, the person cleaning our room is usually a relative of the owner since we tend to stay in small, family run B&Bs. So no need to tip.

I realized that I also usually tip Uber drivers. Not a percentage, but I'll add $1 or $2 if the car was clean and the driver was pleasant.
 
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I really do wish that hotel managers and owners would do their job and evaluate their employees work skills. I do not think I should have to do that. Unless I ask for something above and beyond such as “Can you help me get my angry German Shepard into the trunk of my car?” I don’t think I should have to rate or tip them.

Given that many hotels only service the room every third say, this is less and less of a problem for me.
 
On the Europe topic, just got back from another trip to Europe (Austria, Switzerland & Italy) and I bet two thirds of the restaurants we went to had a place to add a tip on those small credit card machines they bring to your table. Few years ago you'd never see that, we've always tipped a few euros or francs anyway.
 
Reading this, I feel like I need to up my tipping in hotels for housekeeping. I always tip the bellman if needed, the valets, and the concierge if something exceptional is done. I do wish that more electronic options were available, since we increasingly have less cash on hand. I had a college job in a category that traditionally attracts trips, but since we were technically government affiliated workers, we had to turn them down. I had some nice tips I had to give back, too (like $60 in today's money).

Yes, in many European countries overtipping by Americans is an issue. We generally round up in France, or leave a few Euros. This includes taxis and Ubers. But it is more customary in a few situations, especially tours and restroom attendants. In other European countries, it varies widely but I think every place rounds up totals in restaurants, bars, taxis and cafes (and I've been to 28+). In the UK it is technically optional but has become notably more typical, to the point that you must ask to take off a service charge that is often added at nicer restaurants.

It is offensive in Japan. In others, it is more customary, and sometimes that customary expectations is reserved for foreigners. But typically in those situations, the disparity in income and costs makes the impact of a small tip even larger.
 
I think housekeeping in particular is a hard job and I definitely tip them and everyone else that’s expected. One thing I noticed is that some of the hotels are no longer doing daily service unless you request it, which is fine with me.
I do not tip housekeepers in hotels. Just a personal opinion that it is an expected service that the hotel should pay fairly for. Although I do tip servers and bartenders at hotels...so go figure!

I do frequently decline housekeeping when not needed. I know how to make a bed! And perhaps embarrasingly, I don't clean my shower, toilet, and bathroom everyday at home, so why would I need that if just my spouse and I are the only ones there? I just want everything clean when I arrive and every few days for a longer stay.

Others may disagree.
 
Traveling in the US?--of course we tip the people you mention. In other countries, we do some advance research as to the relevant culture there and try not to listen to other Americans telling us what they do. Every country is different. In some countries, there is simply no such thing as tipping--or if there is, it's an American custom creeping in thanks to overzealous American travelers. We just returned from Norway and were surprised to see the credit card terminals ask us if we wanted to add a tip, because we had heard from Norwegians that there is no traditional custom of tipping. We did not tip there. In some countries, tips in some amount--typically way smaller than the US--are appreciated but not expected. I recall in Egypt the baksheesh custom of greasing the wheels with small bits here and there to just about everyone you deal with was the norm. You just need to do your homework and don't succumb to the temptation to tip abroad as you would in the US.

I suspect that many CC terminals come with tipping as a default option. Some cafes here have terminals like that and the seller always hits “No Tip” before asking you to tap your card. I think the more tech savvy owners have been into settings to turn off the tipping options.
 
I just returned from a Viking Ocean cruise to the British Isles. Viking suggests a $3 tip for a tour guide and $2 for the driver, per person. I usually made it five or ten pounds since that was the denomination of the notes I usually had. On one excursion I happened to notice a man pull out his wallet and take out two twenty pound notes. A bit excessive if you ask me.
 
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