ER Samuel Axe
Confused about dryer sheets
- Joined
- May 18, 2021
- Messages
- 7
Walking away late next year right after turning 58 and DW will be 56.
^This is us. FI at 45 when I hit 20 in the military. At the time DW was a few months behind me in her career but only 39 years old. Kids were Finishing up HS. Ended up doing 23 in military and DW did 21. She went government. I went contractor. In 9.5 years, I worked maybe 8.5 total with 1.5 at 32 hrs/wk. Mid-February will be 2 years fully retired. I say fully but I officiate sports. Baseball and volleyball. Don't need the cash but I gross about 15-18K. Net after expenses/deductions maybe 2-3K. DW will retire from government just prior to her 55 birthday. 14+ years govvy so another COLA pension for her at 62.I always considered under 50 early (really, the low 40s). My anchor points were the Terhorsts and John Greaney and my original goal was to reach FI by 40 which was amended to 50 when I got married and consciously increased spending/lifestyle for our joint life but divorced at 42 and sprinted to the finish line at 47 as I unwound those expenses (mostly the cash-sucking huge house).
50's is getting into the full retirement zone with potential for 30 year career and many in military and law enforcement can get an immediate annuity and health after 20 years. If they are frugal and/or saved during their career they should have easily attained at least a lean FI and be work optional. I'm 50 now and no one blinks when I tell them I'm retired. If I mention I did it at 47 it might raise an eyebrow but doesn't get much reaction and it seems like people accept 50 as "old" ^
The FIRE group here always seems much older than the FIRE group on Reddit. I get that's because many people here FIRE'd young and then stuck around into their older years. But the vibe here is more AARP than RE.
Agree - the value of this board is that people who have "been there, done that" stick around and continue to educate those of us who are following in their footsteps. So glad to have found this forum and benefit from all the wisdom shared here!From my observation the population here contains a lot more doers/done-ers whereas most other groups are weighted more heavily to the aspirational end of the spectrum. Since TMF went bonkers I was not active on any online groups for a number of years until I started lurking and eventually joining here. I used to lurk on MMM, ERE, and Reddit some as well but found much less value than on this board (and the early days of TMF). I always valued the experiences of those that ERed ahead of me as both educational and inspirational.
I could’ve retired as much as 6 years earlier, but I shoulda worked another 5 years to pad the nest egg. DW worked 7 years longer than I expected because she liked her last job assignment.57
Should have could have retired five years sooner.
We were whipper-snappers back in the day. Looks like I've been posting here for 14 years. Time flies.The FIRE group here always seems much older than the FIRE group on Reddit. I get that's because many people here FIRE'd young and then stuck around into their older years. But the vibe here is more AARP than RE.
54, but "the year I turned 55", which turned out to be unimportant. The first year of ACA was a more important factor.
Can you elaborate on the Motley Fool bail-out crew? I think I missed that.Retired forever at 48.
After that, Scott Burns had a column on FireCalc and Cap'N Bill's website, E-R.org.
Read it for a few months, there were very few people on it then, but had lots of posts from the year before. Seems the Motley Fool bail-out crew had been here and moved on.
When I decided to register, I couldn't! Something had gone wrong, registration wasn't working, don't know for how long it was like that. Couldn't contact Dory 36 (AKA C'NB), no way to let him know. I found a user who had his/her email exposed, emailed that person to ask if they could relay the problem to Dory 36. They did, problem was fixed, so early 2003 I could post here. Sadly, that person who helped me out is long long gone.