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Or you could get your investment assets to 20m, that's all.Thank goodness we haven't hit it "yet", and hopefully never will. Unless we win the billion dollar lottery...
Or you could get your investment assets to 20m, that's all.Thank goodness we haven't hit it "yet", and hopefully never will. Unless we win the billion dollar lottery...
Not going to happen, unless through inheritance. We know lots of super wealthy friends but none has expressed interest in naming us as their beneficiaries.Or you could get your investment assets to 20m, that's all.![]()
I'm more likely to get millions thru the lottery than thru inheritance. It's very unlikely I will even get 6 figures thru inheritance.Not going to happen, unless through inheritance. We know lots of super wealthy friends but none has expressed interest in naming us as their beneficiaries.![]()
True enough. I suspect if I cut out my annual new vehicle, gifting and hobby expenses, I would be about 75k and comfortable. Maybe less.About a third of our spending this year was luxury travel, which was very fun. However, it provides a very easy target should we need to tighten our belts substantially. Over a quarter was tax. Just living our ordinary everyday lives doesn't cost a lot.
With all of the discussion about taxes and insurance, I looked up those values for my 2024. Just prop taxes, HOA, house ins, car (daily and classic) ins, RV ins, health ins, and dental ins; I am just over $25,900 total for all of those. Those are all essentially fixed costs before adding up any normal living expenses like utilities, groceries, fuel; income taxes, house or car repairs/upgrades, non-ins medical costs, internet, travel, eating out, entertainment, etc. Makes it easy to see why my estimated $120k for the year can be realistic.Haven't totaled it all up, but probably around $120k total incl taxes.
....Companionship? That's the trickiest one - finding someone whose desires are compatible financially, but in all the other ways too.I love seeing the ranges of the community here in how much and on what they spend.. especially as we are generally a "responsible" and self-sufficient group (as much as we can be self-sufficient in a modern economy of interdependence). Wants vs needs is pretty interesting too.... needs can be pretty low expense (helps to have high assets - ironically and perhaps a bit tragically). Statistically I could spend a lot more than I do but part of that is due to the recent generous market which can reverse just as quickly. I expect that eventually if my good fortune continues I will loosen up on a few luxuries and if/when I feel rich will be a bit more generous and up my charity/gifting. Realistically, there is not much I want more than I have.
Talking materially but yes, connection and companionship are the needs I am most focused on meeting. I've posted some about that struggle.....Companionship? That's the trickiest one - finding someone whose desires are compatible financially, but in all the other ways too.
I'd be interested to hear what strategies prove to actually be successful. Its something that holds me back from pulling the plug. I feel like if I FIRE, I will be spending even more time alone and while I do enjoy my own company, I'm pretty sure that I don't want it 24/7, I guess work is a bit of a brain distraction from the disappointment that is the lack of meaningful connections as I push towards 40.Talking materially but yes, connection and companionship are the needs I am most focused on meeting. I've posted some about that struggle.
Hah! Our clothing expenses also tend to be in the travel category. (Replacement tech gear after they've essentially worn out.) And the occasional wedding/funeral item every other year or so....Well, now I don't feel too bad seeing some of the high numbers here. Leaving out what I spent from Dad's inheritance (a large amount but not life-changing, spending/donating it over 10 years), my total expenses were about $130K for one person. That works out to 19% charity, 19% home improvement, 6% mortgage, 12% Medicare premiums and out-of-pocket, the latter mostly dental, 11% taxes, 23% travel. I always find it reassuring to see how much could be cut back (mostly travel and charity) if I had to but my assets have been increasing 3.1%/year after withdrawals since I retired in mid-2014 so I'm still solvent.
I spent $38.31 on clothing, mostly souvenir T-shirts from places I'd visited.
Never heard of youbet pub money.This is an interesting thread. Perhaps I should start tracking spending (after 19 years of FIRE) so I can participate more meaningfully. But, generally, this is where our money went this year in rank order.
1. Taxes
2. Two grandchildren in college
3. Routine household expenses (food, clothing, shelter, local transportation)
4. Medical including premiums, IRMAA, OOP, health club, etc.
5. Travel, entertainment, etc.
6. youbet "pub-money" I wasn't sure whether to put that in category #4 or #5 so calling it #6.![]()