ImaCheesehead
Recycles dryer sheets
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- Mar 6, 2013
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Thank heavens we didn’t do anything because right when we were first working on all this, the week before I made this post,the market had a dip and now it’s had a nice jump. I would’ve felt terrible if she had been sitting in cash waiting for a trustee to trustee transfer. I would’ve had to try to give her money to make up for it, and she wouldn’t have taken it, and I would’ve just had to sit there feeling bad because what was done was done.
I know I am right about getting her out of that higher expense fund, but she’s been comfortable with the way things were and generally didn’t think about what she was paying to own it. It wasn’t until I asked her if she would be willing to pay them $100 a month cash for the services they were offering her that she realized really what it was costing her.
After the great suggestion earlier in this thread to find an asset that could transfer directly, we discovered that although there were no mutual funds that would fit the bill, she could exchange to an ETF and then that ETF could come over. Then the ETF will be traded in for a low cost Vanguard fund.
My mom wants me to take care of the exchange, but I have been on a cruise since mid November and won’t be back until next week. Happily she is just sitting with her familiar MF so my big mouth is not responsible for her losing any money. We will do the transaction together when I get back.
Now I get that what we’re talking about isn’t a lot of money for most people here, but it’s about all she has besides her paid for home in an LCOL area. I also know I’m right about this, but to prove I’m right she can’t lose any money making it happen.
I know I am right about getting her out of that higher expense fund, but she’s been comfortable with the way things were and generally didn’t think about what she was paying to own it. It wasn’t until I asked her if she would be willing to pay them $100 a month cash for the services they were offering her that she realized really what it was costing her.
After the great suggestion earlier in this thread to find an asset that could transfer directly, we discovered that although there were no mutual funds that would fit the bill, she could exchange to an ETF and then that ETF could come over. Then the ETF will be traded in for a low cost Vanguard fund.
My mom wants me to take care of the exchange, but I have been on a cruise since mid November and won’t be back until next week. Happily she is just sitting with her familiar MF so my big mouth is not responsible for her losing any money. We will do the transaction together when I get back.
Now I get that what we’re talking about isn’t a lot of money for most people here, but it’s about all she has besides her paid for home in an LCOL area. I also know I’m right about this, but to prove I’m right she can’t lose any money making it happen.