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A note about
The Wealthy Barber: I hated it, but my sister and her then-husband loved it. It's a great personal finance book for people who hate reference books/manuals. But I'm a more fact-oriented person and found it annoying that all the information was tied into a story. But if you hate boring, dry, fact-filled manuals this would probably be great for you. The whole book is written as conversations in a barber shop, if I recall correctly. (That reminds me, I wanted to rent the movie "BarberShop", but I don't think there's any relation to this book
).
When I first started learning about personal finance I read
Personal Finance for Dummies and
Get a Financial Life: Personal Finance In Your Twenties and Thirties. They both cover about the same information, but I found the latter particularly helpful with filing information; I never was sure how long I should keep paycheck stubs, credit card invoices and such, or how I should file them, but this book gave some solid recommendations that I followed.
I believe I have a copy of Tobias' book, but I haven't read it yet. (My dad gave an old copy to me.) Looking at Amazon.com it looks like
the hardcover version (which I have) was published in February 1978 and
the paperback was published January 2002. I wonder if it changed at all.
The Millionaire Next Door was good, but by the time I had read it I had already adopted the lessons in it. I know I read some Peter Lynch and Warrent Buffet stuff from the library, including a videotape of a Warrent Buffet interview, and much of that was good for stock investing information. However I've avoided individual stocks so far because I'm too emotionally involved when I pick them. If I had tried stocks back when I was thinking about doing it I would've sunk with Cisco, Nortel and Intel. I've been surprisingly comfortable, though, watching my VFINX nearly half in value. (I feel like it almost certainly will recover before I retire; I'm not as confident about Nortel or even Cisco even though I think Nortel has some VoIP (voice over internet protocol) technology that could change the world's phone systems in the next decade.) Next time I feel ilke reading I'll probably check out something by John Bogle (founder of Vanguard and the index fund).
One thing that strikes me about FIRE-minded people is that I infer that in many cases our personality is predisposed to this type of lifestye and these values. (I find johngalt a very interesting exception as a lifelong workaholic & high-roller suddenly reborn into live-below-your-means ER.) Intercst's Retire Early Hope Page
did an unscientific poll a while back to see if certain personality types were more likely to retire early. It did seem to be the case. This is leading up to a couple of books I found interesting that aren't really finance or ER related but were about the Myers-Briggs personality types in REHP's poll.:
Please Understand Me and
Please Understand Me II. The latter explores the personality types deeper, but the former is an easier read and gets the point accross well. I have both and refer to both at times. I'm not very deeply into the "correctness" or Truth (capital T) of scientific analyses like these, but I found it a useful tool to find out my type (according to them) and read about that type and other types because most of the time I seem to perceive the world differently than the people around me (the FI/RE-minded people think more like me, though!). One thing I took from it personally that I hadn't really considered before is that I'm the type of person who can enjoy things like art, fine cars or motorcycles, etc. without having to own them; some people need to own them to enjoy them, but I can just enjoy that I get to see or use them from time to time. I also felt a bit validated by some other aspects of my personality that don't seem to exist in the people around me; the book says my type (INTP) is fairly rare, and there were some things I identified with when it talked about relationships and business.