Hello all. I am glad to have found this forum.
I joined the Air Force at 17 & retired 2 years ago at 42 years of age.
Retiring early had been my goal from the start.
My experience has been this:
Before I retired I had my retirement date posted on a yellow sticky on the wall in my office. Every time things got stressful I would look at it and become so excited about the future. What a dream!!
The first few month of retirement were euphoric. My family & I traveled to Europe; I spent the Summer with our daughters at our lake house. I enjoyed reading, trying out new hobbies, book discussions, yoga, did all kinds of things.
The only issue I find, is that I sometimes feel isolated. I have no peers as there is absolutely no one in the same situation as me. My friends are busy with working, family, and surviving in the rat race, and are too exhausted to get together much. Most retirees are much older than me, and the stay-at-home moms are much younger. Not that age matters but there is no one in the same situation as me that I feel I connect with.
And this sure isn't something I can vent about, as most people would love to trade their problems for mine. Too much leisure time actually gets old. While still in Tampa, I volunteered at the Ronald McDonald House, but haven't found a worthy cause here yet.
I do temp jobs once in a while just to get out and have more contact with people.
Has anyone else experienced the same? I working to snap out of it, and planning an adventurous summer with the family.
Karen
I joined the Air Force at 17 & retired 2 years ago at 42 years of age.
Retiring early had been my goal from the start.
My experience has been this:
Before I retired I had my retirement date posted on a yellow sticky on the wall in my office. Every time things got stressful I would look at it and become so excited about the future. What a dream!!
The first few month of retirement were euphoric. My family & I traveled to Europe; I spent the Summer with our daughters at our lake house. I enjoyed reading, trying out new hobbies, book discussions, yoga, did all kinds of things.
The only issue I find, is that I sometimes feel isolated. I have no peers as there is absolutely no one in the same situation as me. My friends are busy with working, family, and surviving in the rat race, and are too exhausted to get together much. Most retirees are much older than me, and the stay-at-home moms are much younger. Not that age matters but there is no one in the same situation as me that I feel I connect with.
And this sure isn't something I can vent about, as most people would love to trade their problems for mine. Too much leisure time actually gets old. While still in Tampa, I volunteered at the Ronald McDonald House, but haven't found a worthy cause here yet.
I do temp jobs once in a while just to get out and have more contact with people.
Has anyone else experienced the same? I working to snap out of it, and planning an adventurous summer with the family.
Karen