SecondCor521
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Hi all,
Basically I need to know how to grow up.
What do you do in a professional working relationship when you realize you've treated someone without respect but you also feel that they have not treated you with respect?
I think the childish answers might be:
a. Expect them to apologize first.
b. Apologize in a half-hearted or back-handed way so they know you're sorry but they should be sorry too.
c. Simmer resentfully / sulk.
The only grown-up answer I can think of is to apologize for your own behavior and work towards treating them with respect.
I'm just not sure I can do that without eventually exploding in a childish "It's not fair" tantrum.
This is a particularly challenging topic for me because this was the same problem I had in my marriage. And the inescapable conclusion is that it's not my ex-wife and my co-worker, but it's me. Kinda hard to swallow.
Any and all advice welcome.
2Cor521
Basically I need to know how to grow up.
What do you do in a professional working relationship when you realize you've treated someone without respect but you also feel that they have not treated you with respect?
I think the childish answers might be:
a. Expect them to apologize first.
b. Apologize in a half-hearted or back-handed way so they know you're sorry but they should be sorry too.
c. Simmer resentfully / sulk.
The only grown-up answer I can think of is to apologize for your own behavior and work towards treating them with respect.
I'm just not sure I can do that without eventually exploding in a childish "It's not fair" tantrum.
This is a particularly challenging topic for me because this was the same problem I had in my marriage. And the inescapable conclusion is that it's not my ex-wife and my co-worker, but it's me. Kinda hard to swallow.
Any and all advice welcome.
2Cor521