Since we don't golf, we only learn about it from those who do, and what we hear is very confusing. Mainly about cost, but also about the part that golf plays in their lives. So... your experience? Do you golf? How often? Course member? Walk or ride? Side bets? Eat or drink at the clubhouse? Personal friend circle... golfers? Championship courses? Same course? Free Golf? Equipment costs? Alone or with partner/spouse? Plan to continue in retirement?
We all have passions, but it seems that golfers are in a special category that is often incomprehensible for non-golfers.
How say you?
I say!
I golf a lot. Last year 210 rounds. If I've got nothing else going on I golf. On average four to five times a week whether we are in Colorado or Arizona. We belong to two Clubs. I'd rather pay for the club than do the muni thing and based on how much I golf it is not as expensive as one would think.
I would say that I walk 90% of the time. I track my walking, which equates to about 5 miles per round carrying about 25 lbs of bag and clubs on my back. Since I retired in mid 2009 I have humped about 3200 miles. Averaging about 750 miles per year now that I can play year round. I only ride in a cart if it is extremely hot (over 95 degrees).
Gambling and golf go hand in hand. We don't play big stakes. We play a variety of different games (Nassau, banker, nine point, quota, wolf/pig, etc). On a good day you might win $50. On a bad day maybe lose $50. I keep track of winning and losing as well and fortunately I win more than I lose.
In Az our social life revolves around the Club so there is a lot of eating and drinking there. Lunches, dinners, cocktails, etc. In Co not so much. Just mostly golf and an ice tea after the round. Initiation fees to join a course vary. A decent club is probably going to charge $600-$900 per month in dues. I choose to go this way but there are ways to play the game for significantly less....say $25 per round with discounts, etc.
Now that I don't work most of my friends are golfers. Most are older than myself but that is fine. My significant other golfs as well. We play together once, sometimes twice a week. She prefers to just play nine so many days I will play 18 and then play 9 more with her.
Free golf? Not unless you want to play in some farmers field. Just doesn't exist.
Equipment costs run the gamut. Last time I bought a complete set (2 years ago) I paid about $1200. Of course you can get equipment for much less. Used sets might run you about $100 max to get started.
I plan to continue this as long as my body holds out. We have 90 year olds at our club in Az who still play pretty much every day.
Hope this helps!