MRG
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When my dad passed, I realized what wonderful sister's I'm blessed with.
Very sorry for your loss.
Very sorry for your loss.
Timely topic for me. DW is executor for her mother who's health is failing, and I am helping with finances. Some property dividing is already being initiated by SIL and BIL doesn't trust her. I expect this to get much worse before it gets better.
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Timely topic for me. DW is executor for her mother who's health is failing, and I am helping with finances. Some property dividing is already being initiated by SIL and BIL doesn't trust her. I expect this to get much worse before it gets better. ...
Yes, and that giant Monty Python foot comes to mind.Your DW might be best off to put her foot down on her meddling siblings sooner than later.
I may just tell her that there is no way I'll reimburse her expenses from the estate, but after the estate settles she can tell me how much money she wants and I'll give it to her out of my part. Whatever she thinks is "fair".
Hope you benefit as much as I have. I'm also a trustee with sibling issues. Good luckThanks for the book tip MichaelB. I got it from Amazon and now I feel like I'm "cramming" for an exam.
Timely topic for me. DW is executor for her mother who's health is failing, and I am helping with finances. Some property dividing is already being initiated by SIL and BIL doesn't trust her. I expect this to get much worse before it gets better.
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I spoke with sis the other day and it seems she was just having a bad day. I explained the details of the will to her, and that according to my father's instructions she and my stepbrother will receive a larger portion than me. I am totally fine with how it is to be divided it up. No disrespect to my father but if I received an equal share it wouldn't allow me to do anything more than I can currently.
I think possibly sis was goaded by my more materialistic BIL. I also discussed the importance of keeping the inheritance in her name and not to mix
with community property accounts. This may cause problems but I hope not.
In any event I will proceed as if my father were looking over my shoulder.