I've taken to going for walks at work to get away from my desk and to exercise replacement knees -if i sit too long the knees will let me know. My walking partner today, Coleeen, has had her hip replaced and is with me for the exercise also. Plus we are the two oldest people in my department. I estimate the average age at 31 or 32- Im 63 and shes close to that. My other walking partner is the 3rd oldest...
Today Colleen is upset, her 40 year old plus unemployed, ne'er-do-well brother, is full of excuses and too quick to stick out his hand. Apparently he has been living at home, freeloading off their very elderly, limited means, Mom for years. The particular incident that has Colleen worked up is: He doesn't have 2 nickels to rub together so Coleen gave him some money to repair his truck. He used the money for the dogs vet bill. He needs the truck to work. According to Colleen he feels no manual labor job is good enough. I listen patiently as I've heard this kind of story many times before. My counsel: "You cant live his life for him.. There are people that feel they are better than the work they are qualified for and they'd rather not work then "hustle." They are completely comfortable taking money from elderly parents. Colleen's frustrated, feels helpless, but after all it is still her brother.
A few weeks ago I told my gainfully employed Daughter (after she received her second paycheck) that I expected her to get her own Credit Card and pay for her own gas. She applied online and was immediately approved by Citibank - card to follow in a week or so. About 3 weeks later I am sitting having breakfast and see a credit card and some paperwork on the table. I ask the wife what is this credit card doing here? "It's your daughters". I am on to them- The Mrs is a softie and will allow the daughter to bleed me as long as possible. When I finally catch up with my daughter I make it clear no more gas on my card. She's got no student debt (Thanks mom and Dad), no rent, a 2 year old car that we bought for her and a nice salary. She is getting off the RayiPenn Dole! And when I tell her she says "you are mean". Yep thats me, Mean. I think she just doesn't like hearing it. Your off "the gravy train".
Yesterday I walked Dusty early and noticed the windows on my daughter car were frosted. I thought I hope she warms that car up and defrost those windows before she leaves at 6:45AM. I heard the Mrs talking to her about her Car's state inspection which was due. Well to make a long story short -she doesn't know it but a remote starter is getting installed as we speak.
Yeah, like I said the wife is a softie- Me I am hard as nails... hard as nails i tell you!
Care to share your "off the dole' experience -id love to hear it.
Today Colleen is upset, her 40 year old plus unemployed, ne'er-do-well brother, is full of excuses and too quick to stick out his hand. Apparently he has been living at home, freeloading off their very elderly, limited means, Mom for years. The particular incident that has Colleen worked up is: He doesn't have 2 nickels to rub together so Coleen gave him some money to repair his truck. He used the money for the dogs vet bill. He needs the truck to work. According to Colleen he feels no manual labor job is good enough. I listen patiently as I've heard this kind of story many times before. My counsel: "You cant live his life for him.. There are people that feel they are better than the work they are qualified for and they'd rather not work then "hustle." They are completely comfortable taking money from elderly parents. Colleen's frustrated, feels helpless, but after all it is still her brother.
A few weeks ago I told my gainfully employed Daughter (after she received her second paycheck) that I expected her to get her own Credit Card and pay for her own gas. She applied online and was immediately approved by Citibank - card to follow in a week or so. About 3 weeks later I am sitting having breakfast and see a credit card and some paperwork on the table. I ask the wife what is this credit card doing here? "It's your daughters". I am on to them- The Mrs is a softie and will allow the daughter to bleed me as long as possible. When I finally catch up with my daughter I make it clear no more gas on my card. She's got no student debt (Thanks mom and Dad), no rent, a 2 year old car that we bought for her and a nice salary. She is getting off the RayiPenn Dole! And when I tell her she says "you are mean". Yep thats me, Mean. I think she just doesn't like hearing it. Your off "the gravy train".
Yesterday I walked Dusty early and noticed the windows on my daughter car were frosted. I thought I hope she warms that car up and defrost those windows before she leaves at 6:45AM. I heard the Mrs talking to her about her Car's state inspection which was due. Well to make a long story short -she doesn't know it but a remote starter is getting installed as we speak.
Yeah, like I said the wife is a softie- Me I am hard as nails... hard as nails i tell you!
Care to share your "off the dole' experience -id love to hear it.
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