exnavynuke
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
This happily single thread is pretty sparse. From what I can tell from the responses so far not many people are enamored with the single life not even the single themselves.
Well, when I see "single" I generally assume that means "not currently in a relationship". Others may assume the same and just avoid the thread completely, and not realize it's for anyone not married.
Personally, I've never been married and don't have any desire to be married. As for having a relationship (serious or otherwise), I'm ambivalent on the subject. I've been in serious relationships and I've been in casual relationships. I've enjoyed both and I've enjoyed not being in a relationship at all. I'm better at being in a relationship that "finding" a relationship. Like some others, I am quite picky about my relationships and that seriously limits my prospects for a relationship. What I've found over the years from my time being "not in a relationship" is that I can enjoy my life just as well with that status as I do in a relationship.
There are obviously trade-offs between the two. For instance, the vacation industry is set-up assuming you will be with someone else, so going alone can be more costly per-person. Many places are set-up for you to enjoy being there with someone else and it can be quite boring by yourself (I love all-inclusive resorts on the beach, but most of the activities cater to couples doing things, not bringing strangers together). However, going to the right places can be great for making new friends and having new experiences that can be amazing.
That's just one example, but I've found that for every downside to being single, there is generally a corresponding upside - for those willing to see it. The flip-side is that the opposite is also true - the downsides of being in a relationship have corresponding upsides. I've realized that I can be happy in either relationship state.