I worry about my elderly MIL who is caring for FIL. He is extremely stubborn and barely lets us help. He is running her ragged. For instance, won't let us put in a shower and she literally has to lift him out of the bathtub. He gets up several times a night for the bathroom. Doesn't want a nightlight because it keeps him awake so turns on the light in the room while she is trying to sleep. He insists on not hiring help to mow the lawn or shovel so she does it and is almost eighty. Get the idea, a codependent relationship at it's worse. social services have tried to step in at times but they won't have it and the relationship is more sick than dangerous so there is little we can do. they have money to hire help and of course could sell the house and move to an apartment but won't hear of it. the neighbors and we all try to do what we can when they let us.
We'll all keep trying, though, to be nice and helpful. And when they have to call 911 like they do every few months we go and be supportive to MIL. They would never let a service like the original poster showed come anywhere near them. Especially if they thought a plumber might be called in to fix a roof instead of a roofer. That detail is the one they would focus on so they could deny help.
My own parents died suddenly in their fifties so my sibs and I missed all this. We did have a houseful of junk to clean out, my favorite was all the gifts we had given my mother for years, still in boxes and tissue while she wore ripped nightgowns.