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I wish that M-I-L could come back and leave dirty dishes around. Really do...
Don't sweat the small stuff and it's (almost) all small stuff.
The OP presented it as small stuff, but is it really?
I took some heat here for saying I thought the SIL and his DW was being unkind and mean girls like to the MIL and might stop and think about it.
So far he says the MIL "is not his favorite person in the world" (and why you even think the one of your in-laws would be). He and his wife agree MIL "is really sensitive and could really be melodramatic" if simply asked to clear her dish, because she is "a little awkward and has confidence issues" . And finally the OP says the MIL "frankly does a lot of things that annoy me"..then says but I'm trying to overlook it.
It's absolutely not about the dish, that's being used as a way to vent about MIL … The MIL is the DW's Mom and the kids Grandma and apparently a good one willing to step in and do things for her GK's when necessary. Using her as a convenient gopher and then talking smack about her in not cool.
Remember no one has even ask GMA to clear her plate so she doesn't even know it's a problem.